My (15m) thinks 8m doing stuff with a girl (15f)
By - Ret0t0
My parents are very strict and I'm not allowed out the house without telling them where I am, who I'm with, what I'm doing and so on. If I want to leave I have to plan it a week in advance and asked permission. I'm 17 years old, almost 18 and I'm still treated like a 5 year old.
Whenever I bring up a female name, they instantly think I have a girlfriend and starts asking me questions, who is this girl, what does she look like, what does she do in school and all the very annoying and embarrassing type questions.
Its none of your mothers business in my opinion what it is you're doing with a girl, she can ask where you are and what you're up to, that's fine. But asking stuff like how long did you stay at nella’s? How many people where at volleyball? Who were they? Can they vouch? It just isn't any of her business.
Just give her the truth, if she doesn't believe you then that's on her, after you tell her the truth don't answer any more of her questions, that woukd just add more fuel to the fire. I go with the approach of not saying anything at all or avoid mentioning girls names, but that has now sort of backfired as now they think I'm gay
Imo I think it is kinda the parents business but if I had a gf and didn’t want them to know I don’t want them pushing on any lead they get
Sometimes parents worry. Agree with you it sounds kind of paranoid in this context.
If you are open / communicate well with your mom, v you can ask her: " Mom, it seemed like it bothered you whati did while I was waiting for you. Why is that? Were you concerned?"
That is the best way to get an answer to your question.
But if you're not comfortable doing that, you could also just drop it.