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slips_n_gigglz

No


bronsong11

Gifts are a bad idea unless you’re actually together


Myamoxomis

Just ask her on a date. That’s it. Buy her a small meal, maybe a coffee, and get to know each other. That’s it.


brokenman82

we've known each other for 3 years. That is part of the problem


Myamoxomis

How? Go on a date, call it a date. Do something new together.


Bluegoose412

Bad idea lol also getting into relationships around the holidays suck, ask her if she wants to go on a date and only get her something small but personal for Christmas


brokenman82

This is what I did


brokenman82

I took y’all’s advice and it seems to be working :)


TheCookie_Momster

Nope. She knows you’re into her. Is she into you? You don’t want her to decide she likes you because of the things you give her and the money you spend on her. You want her to like you for you, and then if you get into a solid relationship and you know your relationship is headed in a good direction then you spoil her. It’s a very sweet gesture and I don’t want you to be taken advantage of.


brokenman82

Sometimes I think she is and sometimes I think she isn't. I can't tell. I'm bad at this. I've never been in a relationship before.