By - brokenman82
Gifts are a bad idea unless you’re actually together
Just ask her on a date. That’s it. Buy her a small meal, maybe a coffee, and get to know each other. That’s it.
we've known each other for 3 years. That is part of the problem
How? Go on a date, call it a date. Do something new together.
Bad idea lol also getting into relationships around the holidays suck, ask her if she wants to go on a date and only get her something small but personal for Christmas
This is what I did
I took y’all’s advice and it seems to be working :)
Nope. She knows you’re into her. Is she into you? You don’t want her to decide she likes you because of the things you give her and the money you spend on her. You want her to like you for you, and then if you get into a solid relationship and you know your relationship is headed in a good direction then you spoil her. It’s a very sweet gesture and I don’t want you to be taken advantage of.
Sometimes I think she is and sometimes I think she isn't. I can't tell. I'm bad at this. I've never been in a relationship before.