Dude this is unnecessarily harsh. I agree, a divorce may be for the best, but OP is allowed to be upset at this and grieve what could potentially be many years of good memories.
On top of that, when it comes to abuse, its not as easy as "dont take their shit". Wtf bro?? It's abuse. OP didnt want to say what kind, but it could be anything, and again, theyre allowed to be hurt by that fact.
OP, you deserve life, light and happiness. Truly, you do. It can be incredibly difficult to make it through times like this with little support; losing a few family members this in early 2021, i really thought i could end it all myself. But you deserve to be happy and these dark spots do end. Fill your time with anything that brings you joy and never let go of that <3
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Dude this is unnecessarily harsh. I agree, a divorce may be for the best, but OP is allowed to be upset at this and grieve what could potentially be many years of good memories. On top of that, when it comes to abuse, its not as easy as "dont take their shit". Wtf bro?? It's abuse. OP didnt want to say what kind, but it could be anything, and again, theyre allowed to be hurt by that fact. OP, you deserve life, light and happiness. Truly, you do. It can be incredibly difficult to make it through times like this with little support; losing a few family members this in early 2021, i really thought i could end it all myself. But you deserve to be happy and these dark spots do end. Fill your time with anything that brings you joy and never let go of that <3