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I met this girl one time and won't see her in the near future, I want to try something on Instagram

I met this girl one time and won't see her in the near future, I want to try something on Instagram

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ClosetedUnicorn

I mean you'r not a creep you actualy talked with her even tho it was brief it's not like you slide into her DM when you don't know anything about her. I say if you'r determined you should slide into her DM you have nothing to lose tbh. Best case scenario she doesn't reject u, worst one she got a bf or she reject u but then you can just move on and you'll probably never see her again since she's not a close acquaintance


MCKprod

Yes I totally agree with you! But what should I say tho? Because if I just get in her DMs and say Hi, she must have a lot of guys just doing this so I won't really be different from the others


ClosetedUnicorn

Well for 1 she followed you back so she must remember you from the shooting. So I would say "Hi we met at the shooting,and I wanted to get to know u" something along those lines🤔 and she laughed at your jokes so unless it was those awkward kind of laugh, I doubt she'll think badly of you.


Mi_Pasta_Su_Pasta

Try remarking or starting a conversation about something she posts in one of her stories. Like if she goes to a restaurant you've been to or is in a part of town you go to a lot ask her about it. If she's interested in you she'll probably keep the conversation going, if she doesn't respond or just responds with a short yes or no answers more than a couple times it probably a good sign to leave it. That being said, don't worry too much about impressions or being super charming. If you wait too long for the perfect opportunity she'll forget who you are.


Throwaway-242424

Just message her something casual and suggest you two catch up for coffee or something


MCKprod

Yeah that's nice! What do you think about when you say "something casual"?


zeidmaschine

So did you do it?


MCKprod

Yes I did actually! I reacted to one of her story and we began talking. She was very receptive and sent me vocal messages, everything was great but she didn't ask a lot of question so I had to revive the conversation; and then from a day to another she didn't answer me back (didn't even see my message). So I guess she wasn't interested but at least I have no regrets!


zeidmaschine

Good job dude, you did your part 👍🏼


MCKprod

Thanks man!