I will never have my own children, i want to raise my best friends son.
By - Comfortable-Crab7424
Time to talk to her. Why wait.
Problem with this is communication. You told us but have you told her?
This is really sweet, and being a single mother must be really hard. I’d talk to her, it seems like you love her and she might feel the same but she might even be insecure about bringing up your contract after having the little one.
Sounds like you’re in love with her, maybe tell her
Bro, if she dont love u back,s he aint the one
Tell her how you feel. PLEASE.
honestly thats so sweet
Go talk to your friend about it already! It really sounds like it could be a great thing for all three of you.
My cousin got married from a contract like that. They have 2 sons (12&9), have lived all over the world with them, and are really happy together
Shoot your shot, man. If it's ever going to happen, you'll have to raise the subject.
Yeah and he'll be a male parental unit to the subject
Confess! This is so cute. Good luck!
She had a whole kid with someone that's not you. Find someone else
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We do not live near each other at the current moment. Thats why we made the contract because she moved away. Moving next year to be with her.
Did you miss the part where he said he will never have kids due to hereditary issues?
But maybe he still wants kids.
So any kid would literally not be his (genetically).
I didn't, but she had a kid with someone else meaning she didn't choose him.. They could've stayed kid-free and be together
But they never were together.
They lived separate lives. Which means he dated other people. She dated other people.
The “contract” was that they would marry at 30 if not already. Not that they would remain celibate then marry at 30.
Waiting for OP's update
I have to be honest. Im scared to bring it up. Im scared she will not feel the same or am unfit to be a father. I dont know. We currently do not live near one another hence we made the contract when she moved away. But im moving to be with her next year. Im unsure if i should bring it up before i move. I dont want her to put her love life on hold while i figure out moving.
Lots to decide, even more time for the future to old. I wish you luck 🤞
I appreciate it. Thank you
I would definitely bring it up before you move there. What if you move, fall more in love, and she doesn’t reciprocate? Or better yet… if she DOES and you get to move by/with her knowing it’s to be a family? Better to know either way! Lots of luck and love ❤️
You actually have an amazing point.
Thank you so much. I appreciate the kindness
That sounds like a really bad job.
Yeah f that job. I hear the pay is shit
How is this a confession?
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