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I will never have my own children, i want to raise my best friends son.

I will never have my own children, i want to raise my best friends son.

elizacandle

Time to talk to her. Why wait.


stickydebater

Problem with this is communication. You told us but have you told her?


Powerful-Argument608

This is really sweet, and being a single mother must be really hard. I’d talk to her, it seems like you love her and she might feel the same but she might even be insecure about bringing up your contract after having the little one.


Environmental_Ad2794

Sounds like you’re in love with her, maybe tell her


Glittering_Ad_5485

Bro, if she dont love u back,s he aint the one


CLAPPERSFARGO

Tell her how you feel. PLEASE.


poison1104

honestly thats so sweet


zionare

Go talk to your friend about it already! It really sounds like it could be a great thing for all three of you.


Kooky_Ad_5139

My cousin got married from a contract like that. They have 2 sons (12&9), have lived all over the world with them, and are really happy together


CopingMole

Shoot your shot, man. If it's ever going to happen, you'll have to raise the subject.


CallmeFreakxX

Yeah and he'll be a male parental unit to the subject


U_got_no_jams

Confess! This is so cute. Good luck!


Bolshevik-ish

She had a whole kid with someone that's not you. Find someone else


Shakespeare-Bot

The lady hadst a whole peat with someone yond's not thee. Findeth someone else *** ^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.) Commands: `!ShakespeareInsult`, `!fordo`, `!optout`


Comfortable-Crab7424

We do not live near each other at the current moment. Thats why we made the contract because she moved away. Moving next year to be with her.


Fixmy59bug

Did you miss the part where he said he will never have kids due to hereditary issues? But maybe he still wants kids. So any kid would literally not be his (genetically).


Bolshevik-ish

I didn't, but she had a kid with someone else meaning she didn't choose him.. They could've stayed kid-free and be together


Fixmy59bug

But they never were together. They lived separate lives. Which means he dated other people. She dated other people. The “contract” was that they would marry at 30 if not already. Not that they would remain celibate then marry at 30.


thowaway19865

Waiting for OP's update


Comfortable-Crab7424

I have to be honest. Im scared to bring it up. Im scared she will not feel the same or am unfit to be a father. I dont know. We currently do not live near one another hence we made the contract when she moved away. But im moving to be with her next year. Im unsure if i should bring it up before i move. I dont want her to put her love life on hold while i figure out moving.


thowaway19865

Lots to decide, even more time for the future to old. I wish you luck 🤞


Comfortable-Crab7424

I appreciate it. Thank you


banana3490

I would definitely bring it up before you move there. What if you move, fall more in love, and she doesn’t reciprocate? Or better yet… if she DOES and you get to move by/with her knowing it’s to be a family? Better to know either way! Lots of luck and love ❤️


Comfortable-Crab7424

You actually have an amazing point.


Comfortable-Crab7424

Thank you so much. I appreciate the kindness


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You good?


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kingpirate

That sounds like a really bad job.


No_Ant_7899

Yeah f that job. I hear the pay is shit


gilles_de_rias

Get married


John_Fx

How is this a confession?


Comfortable-Crab7424

"This is a place to tell your nasty secrets or a place to simply vent. Get the unfiltered opinions of strangers" if youre looking for hardcore confessions go to the other more popular r/confession