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sunsetmemories1

Somalis literally hate and harass any visible Somali women that doesn’t wear hijab or subscribe to ceeb culture. I’m glad Ayan stated her truth and didn’t let the mob steal her narrative. These sick Somalis don’t understand they’re pushing their people away. Somalis are diverse people. Not every Somali is Muslim or wants to partake in toxic cultural norms. She’s an independent women and doesn’t attach her self-worth to Somalis. My biggest advice to Somalis is never seek validation from crazy Somalis. Trust me, it’s NOT worth it. And if they have been watching her show she stated she’s proud of her Somali ethnicity. She experienced a lot of trauma as result of toxic ceeb culture in her traditional Somali family while growing up in Kenya. I mean the abuse was severe including beatings from her father. Instead of uplifting her and asking how can we do “better” they attack and belittle her. So I’m not surprised she completely distances herself from Somalis. Because it’s not good for your mental health.


reaper14998

She’s on a different level of confidence that I adore. There’s so many non Muslim Somali that don’t care anymore and the first one I saw was Iman the model. I loved how much Somalis accepted her even thou she was a model, drinking and married David Bowie. Legends and Fuck the Hate


som_233

Actually, most old school Somalis still hate her. Even her mom and dad disowned her for a long awhile and newer open-minded generations love her as long as not brainwashed.


reaper14998

They may hate her but they all respect her. Unless there full in the deepend, ive actually never heard anyone talk shit. My view tho.


som_233

Well I'm glad you never heard shit. I've heard it from haters IRL and on message boards. She not only had the chutzpah to run away overseas and date her model photographer but also married an African American Basketball player and then Bowie, who for awhile hinted about his bisexuality. Imagine how she rocked the boat in the 80s and on even with those who thought they were liberal Somalis (you know, the ones that say it's okay not to wear a hijab..but GASP!...marrying a bi cadaan???). She was considered a pariah but I'm glad the hate is less with new generations.


zoomerzhang

Good on her for leaving the toxic community years ago


NoVeterinarian1056

they always have so much to say when it’s a somali girl who doesn’t look anything like the standard typical hijab muslim somali girl, but when it’s the zina committing, drug dealing, killing gangbanger somali deadbeat rappers they turn a blind eye and thirst over them instead. DOUBLE STANDARDS!


som_233

Spot on! I will be asked to donate to a drug dealer/robber/criminals legal fund and show up in court, even though they are Muslim in name only and do drugs and alcohol and all sorts of vice and constantly disrespect their family. That Somali girl that married a white guy who still says she's Muslim. AUDUBILLAHI!


MacroMan97

Queen shit 👑


sithsidefarax

She's qurux 👌


UgaasWaqooyi

I never heard a Somali having the name Pilott😭


sunsetmemories1

Her son is half Somali & half white American. Her husband is from Idaho.


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urannoyingmee

It hurts soomaaha? Seeing more and more of your women not give any fucks about you and kaba sii daran, your inability to do anything about it which is a cold, hard reminder of how much of a powerless little boy you are? 🥺


SomaliaForward

There’s always been ajnabi lovers in our community. They can have them 🤷‍♂️


urannoyingmee

Nah, this has nothing to do with ajaanibs, some of you people bring ajaanibs up in conversations they weren’t even mentioned in. Are you shook of ajaanib men? Conservative Somali niggas are always bringing ajaanibs up, letting these niggas live in your head rent free💀 🤦🏾‍♀️ It has everything to do with conservatism. Women simply don’t like to live under strict conservative ways and choose not to. Niggas like you are unable to stop it and your inability to stop it scares tf out of you low key bc it is a painful reminder of your powerlessness. The ‘westernised’ Somali women are only increasing in numbers by the day. Soon they’ll be your daughters and nieces.


SomaliaForward

Honestly I don’t even care if they marry a Muslim or not. Marrying white men is just not it lmfao. I don’t give a flying fuck what y’all do, marrying white men disgusts me though. If they love white people, let the white people have them lmfao doing us a favor And it’s only a handful of y’all that hate your own race. Their are girls who aren’t religious Somali girls at all but yet will only marry Somalis. Please get your self hate checked out, if you’re specifically looking for non Somalis then clearly something is wrong with you. You let one Somali guy ruin your perception of an entire race. Get some help or just marry y’all white men, there’s plenty of other normal Somali girls that don’t hate their race and culture over their deadbeat fathers or abusive boyfriends. Let a single experience ruin it for y’all sad


urannoyingmee

Nigga, my husband is Somali. You still sound angry af tho and I can’t help but think a white man did something to you bc there’s no way you think all Somali women married to white men automatically hate Somali men or their own race. You’re not that dumb, you know humans are more complex than this, which is why I think your problem isn’t really with cadaan men but rather Somali women being dad caqli leh oo dhameystiran that are able to make decisions.


Advicemecorrectyle

But they do, Almost every somali man or women ive met that married cadaan are self haters


urannoyingmee

Most Somali people I know married to cadaans would’ve preferred to have married Somali but settled for cadaan bc they were tired of dealing with the anxiety of repeatedly putting themselves in the dating only to once again meet another weird, conservative and misogynistic Somali. Either that or they grew up with white people and only saw Somalis at family functions hence their lack of compatibility with Somalis. Not all Somali men are trash, my husband is the BEST and I’m so glad he’s mine, my Somali exes were also good men but we were incompatible for other reasons but despite my good experiences, I can still see the bs out there. (Btw I don’t think the women are much better either, many of them spew the same conservative and weird ideas) but yeah, it is what it is I guess.


SomaliaForward

Marrying a white man is the biggest L an African woman can take. Most likely marrying you because of a fetish. White people have done nothing personally to me, except for fuck up my country and be some of the most vile racist people in the world (kinda ironic since this is racist to whit ppl but idgaf)


urannoyingmee

I don’t like white people at all, I would never even consider being close friends with one of THEIR WOMEN, let alone date or even marry their men. Whether or not that makes me racist I honestly dgaf but my stance on cadaan people is irrelevant to this discussion. It still doesn’t give you or me to demonise Somali women for having agency and marrying/dating whoever they want.


urannoyingmee

You do walaalo, you really really care and your previous comment around it reeks of bitterness. Don’t let ajaanib men make you feel down, nin iska dhig 😩🥺🤣


SomaliaForward

Lmfao 😂 Honestly the ajnabi lovers are doing us a favor by marrying outside the race. Good riddance to them


urannoyingmee

What did cadaan niggas do to you? Story time💀💀


freelancefikr

facts lmaooo i don’t even like cadaan people like that but i’m not foaming at the damn mouth like homie here


SomaliaForward

Go date your colonizers 😭😭✌️. This girl rlly just asked what’s wrong with white men. That’s one of the reasons our country is fucked up and the reason why Kenya and Ethiopia have our land. Aren’t you also a BLM Xalimo? You’d think you would agree


Accomplished_Mind260

I'd rather marry a colonizer because they have dominance and power unlike weak, conquered dusty farahs that can't keep their ashy dick in their pants.


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urannoyingmee

Hurt about what?


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urannoyingmee

Exactly what is sad about your comment?


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urannoyingmee

Ka jawaab dee agah


ReturnOfADemonn

I’ve never heard a Somali with that kind of accent. She must be Ethiopian.


Novel_Ad_3627

She is somali kenyan, which means she was born and raised in kenya. Lmao I actually have cousins who have kenyan accent when they speak English.


ReturnOfADemonn

Oh ok so she’s a Kenyan sellout. That explains it.


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Novel_Ad_3627

Tbh What did Somalia do for her. Didn't give her any education, safety, support or freedom. I would rather be proud Kenyan than being proud of a shit country with 7th century mindset.


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SomaliaForward

You would rather be proud of a colonial creation? Somalis in the sub are sad and embarrassing. The self hate is appalling. You dick eat Kenya like this while they encroach on our borders, bomb our land and already own the NFD region which is rightfully Somali. Please just do us all a favor and claim Kenya instead of Somalia. We don’t want you nor care about you


ReturnOfADemonn

Wow self hate much?


Novel_Ad_3627

It's two different thing being proud of your ethnicity and being proud of your country. I'm proud of being somali, it's who i am. But there is no way i would be proud of the country Somalia with its current situation. It's shithole and it's a fact. it's up to u how u want to view my point anyway ✌🏾


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Kingkazola

How the fuck is it self hate? She clearly states that she's Somali multiple times just because you're not a Muslim Somali it doesn't mean that you hate yourself 🤦🏾‍♀️


SomaliaForward

If you actually read the comment you would know it was self hate. This guy is munching on Kenya’s dick


ReturnOfADemonn

I was talking to the person I was replying to.


som_233

WTF? Somalis in Kenya were refugees at first and they go to public schools and even the private schools have teachers with that accent. Everybody on the street as well. How tf is it selling out? You blend in and learn accent from others, just as much as a Somali Australian got an Aussie accent.


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som_233

Tons of Somalis in Kenya speak with this accent, as do other Kenyans.


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SomeInitiative93x

We don't have many Kenyan-Somalis in Europe which is why many are unfamiliar with the accent. For me its obvious tho bc I have a lot of family from Kenya.


ReturnOfADemonn

I know plenty of them but I’ve never heard this kind of accent