I'd say chill with all of them but keep things brief and acquaintance-like rather than bring fake friendly. It doesn't seem feasible to ignore them all barring one as you couldn't hide your visit without the cousin you are visiting being informed about how you feel 🤣. Good luck still.


According to my notifications, there’s 5 comments on here but I can only see yours. Can you see the others? Also what you said makes sense.


I would say forgive and forget since they have backed off unless you think they will interfere in your business again. Let it go. Spend time with all your cousins, but maybe arrange a one to one activity or invite the cousin you like for dinner, spa, etc.


you commented this 4x btw


I removed the duplicates.


Up to you to decide whether you want to setup pre-trip boundaries and tell those you want that there are some you don't want to meet. Or can just fake your way thru those cordial greetings and events. No one way to do it.