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How do I deal with this betrayal?

How do I deal with this betrayal?

Naive_Agent9953

This happens in life, sad truth. If your gonna continue to be kool with them just keep your friendship at a distance, a real friend cares if they effected you, they'll ask what's up and if they don't then just move on. Time will change how you feel and it'll also give your answer on if they're worth having your friendship back.


FreeDannyMason

A wise guy told me once, if you have a favourite food that you enjoy eating all the time but one day that food made you sick and you puke it all out. Do you eat your puke because the food tasted good once? When a great thing goes bad it’s better to walk away


Rednonymousitor

Do you also never eat that food again...?


FreeDannyMason

Depends on the person, if they really love the food they will eat again.


rhikkit

You have to decide for yourself if they are worth it. I am going through something right now where I'm scared I'm going to lose my best friend, but it's worth it because she's worth everything to me. She can say almost anything at all and I'll still love her.


Astars26

Yea dude from the sounds of it you need to separate yourself from them.


Rednonymousitor

Have you been able to unpack what it is specifically that's making this so hard to let go? If you're able to really dive down and find out what it is that's gotten you so bad, it might be helpful to tell the friends how what they did affected you and why it affected you so much. Don't forget that everyone has their own interpretation of events, and that often comes from life experiences that aren't universal for everyone. Definitely take some time to heal and reflect, but don't be too quick to end a clearly special friendship over the first serious quibble that comes up.