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Which pic is better for my first pic?

Which pic is better for my first pic?

BubblesBeer

The smiling one.


420catloveredm

So weird. My male coworker said the exact opposite of what everyone on here is saying.


MoximuS1978

He want to keep you just for himself 😊


420catloveredm

Nah. He had the chance before I got back on tinder and got back together with his ex instead.


f_it2020

It's like we're living the same life wtf


nightcrawlerCRD

I kinda get it, gotta keep the vibe goin Smile -> no smile Vs No smile -> smile


420catloveredm

My second pic on my profile is [this ](https://imgur.com/a/RXQyWLE) rn


no_good_namez

I would use that one as your first pic! It looks like a natural, happy smile


coupon_is_expired

I second! You've got a gorgeous smile!


420catloveredm

Really? I feel so awkward when I smile with my teeth but I’ll test it out and see how it goes. Edit: I also love what I did with my hair that day.


coupon_is_expired

Girl, your hair looks good too. And from you're replies I'm gonna say your beautiful! Oh and you look pretty too.


420catloveredm

Awww. :)) thanks so much. I appreciate it.


coupon_is_expired

Just keep shining! 😄


Jealous_Tangerine_93

It is the happier ☺ image


Jealous_Tangerine_93

That is a lovely image too. On your other images, the one in your bathroom looks the nicer one. Sorry my phone is playing up


420catloveredm

Yeah I don’t like the first one much either but I felt like I didn’t have a proper full body pic on my profile without it.


nightcrawlerCRD

Noice, ok yeah you good, thought those two were gonna be the only ones on your profile. Love the hair btw


420catloveredm

Nah. It has [these](https://imgur.com/a/AGpRvbH) as well.


Jealous_Tangerine_93

The third on , of you in the bathroom is the nicer one of you. The 1st one doesn't do you justice. The one of you tongue lolling isn't attractive. The one of you smiling in the other , lone image, is the prettiest of all of them


tanboots

That's ones my favorite of the 3. The first pic out of the two in this thread I would suggest as a second. You're really pretty! I hope you get some good matches. :)


420catloveredm

Thanks!


BabyGirlT3

use that as your pfp!!


SayRaySF

I agree with the smile. The first one almost gives off “I’m not like the other girls” vibes to me. The smile gives off a much more sweet and slightly curious vibe


Effective_Berry5391

Is their one where your are genuinely happy? The smile looks forced.


420catloveredm

I have a chronic pain disorder so every smile is gonna look somewhat like a grimace.


Effective_Berry5391

I'm sorry.


420catloveredm

It’s okay. It inspired me to get into Pilates so I’m stronger than ever except for one leg. :)


TheOneMigrlo

Second one for sure. You hair looks amazing!


420catloveredm

Thank you so much!


Reccos106

That second one is brilliant! (Smiling) Really great photo!


420catloveredm

Thank you! The light outside my workplace during my first break is perfect for photos.


skane110

The second one, for sure. also, I love your hair


420catloveredm

Thank you! My hair color has gotten crazy positive reactions on tinder and in person. I should’ve done it forever ago. Lol


SoMuchForLongevity

The one where you're smiling is definitely better than the one where the expression on your face is saying "Wait, are those maggots??"


420catloveredm

Lol really? My male coworker told me the exact opposite.


angelmann33

Second. I think it shows your face better


420catloveredm

I get that for sure.


LokiAnon

I'd say it's dependent on what kind of person you want. I'd say the more dominant types would like the first, but the second would appeal to more people over all


420catloveredm

Ummmm idk. I don’t like guys who are overbearingly dominant. Why would the first appeal to more dominant guys?


LokiAnon

Because you look submissive/unhappy. It would also be highly appealing to the "protector" guys too, which is ironic, because they can be wildly different lol


420catloveredm

It’s so funny that you say that because the coworker who said the first one has admitted to being the savior type.


LokiAnon

Lolz. That explains that


loganh565

Hit the nail on the head there hahahah


Fabster_3000

2


420catloveredm

I’m gonna tell my coworker he was wrong.


Fabster_3000

:)


PatientWorldliness54

2 but I would rather see teeth.


420catloveredm

My second picture has [teeth. ](https://imgur.com/a/RXQyWLE)


Throwaway562377

Should get some non selfie pics


420catloveredm

I have some but not since I’ve had this hairstyle. :/


PennyFeatherIX

Plot twist: she has no teeth


Aieyr

Always go with the smile. Hands down. You have a good one and it should be the first thing someone sees.


420catloveredm

Thank you so much. So weird. My coworker said “smiles are important, but the first one is better”. So weird.


yo_daddy96

So what's your endgame here?


420catloveredm

Would like to find a consistent fwb at this point. I just got out of a serious relationship.


WOdy_Cowen

2nd!!


Rogendo

Second one for sure


Scooknitram

Rooting for the second pic!


420catloveredm

It seems to be winning in a landslide.


CornieJokeQueerSpoke

Second one for sure. Your hair is a vibe 👌👌


420catloveredm

Thank you! I do it myself.


Illustrious_Pain_548

I say the one with you teeth showing you have a beautiful smile and teeth.. show it off girl !


420catloveredm

I feel like I look more awkward in that one though lol


Illustrious_Pain_548

Not at all!! Beautiful


Same_Mouse

Not to say what you’re saying is true but I think if you adjusted your posture a little and a slightly different angle it wouldn’t appear that way!


MrNovillage

2


OddEscape2295

Love the dimple 😊


420catloveredm

Thank you. :)


Complex_Addition6262

Both are cool but a smile is always better. And you have a pretty smile.


420catloveredm

Thanks. :)


Rad_Ben_Danklin

Second one. Get rid of the first, with the second it’s not even needed 🔥


420catloveredm

Good to know. Ive been testing out one on bumble and one on tinder. Guess I’ll just use number two on both now.


Dramatic_Ad_2957

2


NecessaryKitchen5134

Smiling for SURE


Acrobatic_Ad_5619

Second one :) the dreads are fire!


FearlessCareer8429

I like the first!


Jealous_Tangerine_93

2. For me is the better image. You look far more relaxed


Flat-Interview6791

Definitely smiling! Also, you probably have beautiful teeth. Don't be scared to show em. And your hair is fking dope!


Sad-Examination6338

Look I'm a scrawny white irish guy a world away so I know I'll saddly never have a shot, but your eyes light up between these two photos, with you smiling you got the world at your feet.


ChonkyChiweenie

Definitely the second pic. Also, you are stunning.


wontusethisforlongg

People respond to smiling more. Who would you approach, someone who has a stone cold face or someone who smiles?


Fluid_Fan_8534

second one!!


kngzulu

Smiling one


OhToooooodles

the smile. you look stunning


International_Ant298

Your hair frames your face so beautifully, I would say the second one.


Solid_Tackle7069

Smiling one.


Nine_down_1_2_GO

You are gorgeous in both, but the one withsmile is more eye catching.


Ok_Swing9233

The 3rd one


sunshineandhail

First one


420catloveredm

I wonder why so few people agree. It’s weird.


sunshineandhail

You look beautiful in both but the first one feels like it has more… substance? Feeling? Soul? I don’t know but I prefer it. I’m a woman though so maybe take my advice with a pinch of salt.


420catloveredm

I preferred the first one too and my coworker said he preferred it as well probably for the same reasons. So we aren’t totally alone.


SleeveTrock

2nd. Smiles go miles (or something like that 😋)


whoreddit2020

First pic is cool follow that up with another pic of you it must be a black and white photo of you sitting on a brick wall wearing a pladded skirt with a cigarette held up to your mouth while holding it between your left index and middle finger. Look at the camera in a sexually defiant way. Keep the hair. Make sure the pic is black and white. Where those feminist boots all these militant girls are wearing. I think a pic like that will follow the first pic of you not smiling perfectly.


skytlan1519

Second.


Ol_Metal_Bones94

Zoomed out one


rojasduarte

Wow that hair dye


420catloveredm

They’re extensions actually. But i do them myself so thanks for the huge compliment. :)


rojasduarte

They're awesome. Come to Brasil do them on me and my family hahaha


Zoottootapoot

The 3rd one. Oh wait there's only 2 . Sorry I had too


M--30

Oh number 2 for sure. You look great ❤️


420catloveredm

Thanks so much. :))


M--30

Your welcome. Keep shining, your a star. 💫


fancyburgh

I love both, but I like the mystery of the first!


Abalone_Admirable

Second one is dazzling!


MomofDoom

Aw, you're really pretty! I like the smiling one too.


BabyGirlT3

the second one


markeraming

Both are beautiful but I recommend the non smiling one.


HollisAnnette

Both looks nice 😻


Royal-Jacket-149

I love your hair so much, that color is serious mermaid vibes, second picture for sure.


420catloveredm

Thanks! I wanted to feel like a black mermaid lol.


Boring_Upstairs_8361

The first one I get "well I'm here again" vibes 😆 and the other I get happy and energetic vibes


420catloveredm

The vibes of the first one are more true to me. Lololol. But I guess the second one does seem more approachable. Idk. The coworker I used to have a crush on liked the first one better, but maybe that’s just because he knows my personality haha.


Boring_Upstairs_8361

Fair enough; but it sounds like he just wants you to have less matches. Lol


420catloveredm

Shouldn’t have got back with his ex when I was interested then. ┐( ̄ー ̄)┌


Boring_Upstairs_8361

You've never put someone on the back burner? 🤣


420catloveredm

Lmaooooo


wisdom322

Straight white male from the Bible Belt says the first. While it lacks the heartwarming smile , the closer picture feels like you like your face


popeyesbeansandrice

You’re so beautiful! I love the colors in your hair and makeup. 💙💜💙


automotive201720

Neither unless I’m in it.


thedopechaud30

Cant stand the current sadboi/sadgirl/lofi trend, so second it is


420catloveredm

Eh. I’ll take genuine sadboi/sadgirl shit over fake over positivity. Ive been depressed since before it was an aesthetic. Lol.


Mainecooon

Да что этот нигер себе позволяет?!


coupon_is_expired

I like the second one. But you look great in both.


homealoneagain88

2nd one


sambouleau

2


ShutTheFunkUpBeeotch

C'mon it ain't close. Don't make me roast you.


RafzzP

#2


Difficult-Solution-1

Definitely use the smile one as the first pic


N0rthernLightsXv

I love your hair!!! Both pics are great but smiling is good as a first impression.


JayBow4

smiles always 😁


KyleHamptoninn

Either way I wanna punch the clown


420catloveredm

Idk what that means.


KyleHamptoninn

Look like the laugh now cry later and I wanna punch the cry face 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️


PaysOutAllNight

Punching the clown is also a euphemism for masturbation.