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Do Somali women marry African men who are not Somali?

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Gallaballatime1

So this is OP first post on Reddit…


africanboy007

Yes this is my first post but I’ve been on Reddit for a while. I usually prefer to read peoples post than make my own.


xassandaxir

Stop fetishizing our women! Go marry someone from your race


africanboy007

I’m black so technically Somalis are my race too.


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yes we are


[deleted]

You don't feel strange posting this?


africanboy007

No, I’m interested in finding out if it’ll be ok to marry a Somali lady.


Black_Puma_

Only if you're Muslim.


CapitalLie2178

This is so bizzare.


africanboy007

Why? Is it an inappropriate question to ask?


throwawa-y567

As long as they are Muslim, yeah I've seen some. Not super common though, Somalis mostly marry among themselves. You only ever see interracial marriages among the diaspora, which is not that often.


PottyPatty8

It’s better to marry within your culture unless you want the headache


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africanboy007

I’m Christian. Thanks


whowouldvethought1

Well if you’re a Christian, then no. Muslim women can only marry Muslim men.


africanboy007

Got it. Thanks


SnooOpinions694

Usually If a Somali woman marries outside her race the Somali community abandons her whereas that’s not always the case for men( usually see this in my community, so not speaking for all)


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Really sad community to be in as a woman then


anaakujecel

Every community is like that lmfaoooo not just Somali


[deleted]

Not really just the primitive ones are


KazzaNamso

Not every..just backward mentality ones


anaakujecel

Not just backwards only , ain't nobody gonna allow their child to marry foreigners lmfaoooo


KazzaNamso

who lied to you?


Present-Owl4767

hello? the white ”progressive” Community dont even accept mixed children.


KazzaNamso

Where did I mention white?


Present-Owl4767

you implied somali culture is backwards so now tell me which culture accept that shit ur advocating for if even the white man u look up 2 dont.


KazzaNamso

This is the prime example of inferior mentality. I haven't mentioned a single race yet you conclude that I look upto the white man. Make sure you pass school and not become a drug dealer kid..


Present-Owl4767

stop whining, i come from a noble family no need to be in the streets like ur family. defo hit a nerve didnt i. mans using white man terminology just say as it is😂😂😂


KazzaNamso

The noble family didnt even teach you to read or write. Its obvious from the way you write. Dont forget, you're writing in the "white mans" language.


KazzaNamso

And I haven't stated the somali culture is backwards...I stated those who agree to such are backwards.


Present-Owl4767

ok bad news majority off the world does but lucky us your a enlightened man 😂


KazzaNamso

Majority of the world? Maybe the majority at your parents household. Focus on your school kid and get your family out of the gutter.


Present-Owl4767

aint you active in xsomalian? ur ideology comes from the ”progressive” west do you see those secular accept mixed children ever? the sad part is women who actively marry out then realise their children are not accepted by any community.


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I personally don't want to have any children AT all so that doesn't apply to me.


[deleted]

That's a very broad question. It really depends on the woman. I do however see more and more somali women marrying ajnabis i see it all around me.


Standard-Guarantee-5

They do, somali women are humans too you know kkkk. Ethnicity doesn't mean Jack shit to love, people do tend to be attracted to people from the same culture but it's not the end all and be all. As a somali man you need to ensure that the man that your female relative marries is a good man, you don't want to be the tyrant that controls who she feels attraction towards, that's your job done.


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right lol