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I fucked up

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OkRefrigerator6396

Madowka iska ilaali?


Lazy-Dependent6316

Carabta iska ilaali


TheMightyNomad

Take your trolling to another subreddit.


ilovdbaasto

Walal I’m not trolling and people in our community do go through this . And by saying im a troll your silencing my voice


rolliopolliot

I went through it, I got knocked up by some Cadaan guy, my family accepted my baby and are very supportive


ilovdbaasto

Is the dad not in your life and why did u keep it ?


rolliopolliot

Because it’s my child why would I kill it?


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ChairmanUzamaoki

Looks like the Somali hate subreddit is just for those that don't practice Islam, but he still identifies with his people. I guess there are some kinda shitty things he says about Somali ppl tho


ilovdbaasto

Im questioning Islam I haven’t left it yet


Super-Brother-9496

Don’t you see it? Islam tells you not have sex before marriage but you didn’t listen. Know you understand the reason. Thier wisdom behind every rule in Islam. Allah gave you a lesson, you are lucky. Repent and do Maher to that girl so your child is not a bastard


IfISpeak_

He's going to screenshot this comment and share it in another somali hate thread. Just delete this and block him.


Super-Brother-9496

😂😂😂


ilovdbaasto

Get of khat


ilovdbaasto

So pay the girl money ?


Super-Brother-9496

Maher is what she request. It can be anything


Lazy-Dependent6316

Mods, get this troll out


IfISpeak_

Mods can you permaban this guy?


treetopBirdcatcher

Raise that kid your parents will forgive you eventually, a child is always a blessing


ilovdbaasto

Wouldn’t raising kid ruin my future from marriage prospects to career


PerspectiveOk2911

I can only give insight from an Islamic point of view on this situation. As a Muslim you wouldn’t have rights to that child nor would that child be able to claim you even she decides to give birth, the reason why is because this is an illegitimate child. Depending on if she’s Muslim and if you are interested in marrying eachother that would of been the next step if you’d want to claim the child as yours. It doesn’t seem like either of you want to marry eachother so whether the child is born or not, you wouldn’t have rights over the child islamically bc it’s out of wedlock. You don’t need to agree on her having an abortion or not that’s her choice unless you get married.


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ChairmanUzamaoki

Depends on your stance regarding abortion. Right now there is no baby, just a cluster of cells. Raising a baby alone you will pretty much have to sacrifice everything and datinf in your future will become more difficult. Many folks in this sub are religious and will encourage you to keep the baby. I'm not religious or Somali so I think that should be mentioned. But this is a "you" thing, no internet forum can solve this dilemma for you.


ilovdbaasto

Im conservative towards abortion


ChairmanUzamaoki

Then you gotta dig deep and ask yourself if you are ready to have a baby, love it, care for it, and provide for it for the rest of your life because they're not pets or toys, it's gonna be very difficult and very expensive.


ilovdbaasto

I’ll have my parents raise it


Warya10

This is jokes


ChairmanUzamaoki

So you're conservative towards abortion but not abandoning your child? Homie you got some issues to work out, I suggest you have a very long conversation with your parents and this woman before you make a decision. I can't even express how lucky you are that you met a woman that would bring a baby into this world or abort it based in your wishes. Additionally, when that child is on the brink of being born she may have a change of heart. I was supposed to be aborted. Hormones eventually hit my mama and she couldn't get rid of me. My dad opted into staying. Their lives were difficult of me. The fact that you're willing to let a woman give birth to your child and pass it off to your parents, imo, tells me everything you know. Getting rid of a couple hundred cells is not nearly as heinous as tossing your child to your parents so it can grow up with no mother and no father and wonder what they did wrong to be abandoned.


ilovdbaasto

I’m guessing your westerner


ChairmanUzamaoki

correct


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ilovdbaasto

Sorry if I don’t fit into your incel ideology but I do slay and she’s not white trash


Commercialismo

Don’t abort it, have the baby.


Abelka1203

You have to force her to marry you and convert her to islam. Its a long process but you ended having zina and this is the consequences.


Deep-Lemon6800

Shouldnt have got urself into that situation in the first place uff


Imamkoshin619

Bro this is why zinaa is haram in islam