Why do I have amazing results in real life with women but not on dating apps?
By - just_some_dude_blah
Wait, I’m stuck on how you need to “increase” your “results” when you already have 13 numbers.
Irl requires a lot of work. I want more results but with less effort.
I don’t think online is where men use less effort
For me its less work. But any clue why its more difficult online?
Online is way easier for me.
online is much more effort for most dudes because its like 65% guys on apps. Girls get a buffet you get a fraction of a fraction of that. Even male model guys have only maybe 1/3 of the matches attractive girls get.
Girls swipe right on 8% of the time according to tinder insights. Just imagine how low that is. Thats just TO swipe right. Thats not even a date.
Right this may be my answer. And if the numbers r so bad where its 65% men, idont think guys can rly do anything. They are put in a queue and ugly, attractive guys and the top .01% are all equal and placed in a queue. Irl we can just approach a girl and catch her attention. In the apps until its ur turn in the queue she wont wven see you. And if she swipes right 8% of the time she isnt taking this seriously and just too many guys to choose from. So she will likely give up after a few hundred swipes. I give up after 20-30 swipes.
Men outnumber women a lot on dating apps, therefore more competitions for men. In real life it’s more or less 1:1.
at the club I was at, it was a sausage party. On tinder and bumble men outnumber women 9:1 but im also thinking maybe women dont take OLD seriously much. You think there is any validity to that statement?
Because online you’re a closed minded clown. I’m guessing in person you put on the charm. Online you burp into speech to text.
No truthfully. Its cause i take horrible pics and i dont think i will take good pics anytime soon just to get dates. I feel thats so disengenuine. I have friends who look Nothing like their dating pics and they managed to get 500 dates in a year. One guy is also 5’3. I met him at a party. I literally had girls coming over to talk to me “i wanna meet everyone here” but singled me out then we exchanged numbers. I guess i dont put much effort on dating apps bcuz i dont have to. Like seriously im typing here and walking down the street at the same time and i see all the female attwntion im getting. Swiping her hair, fixing her clothes, looking at me head on. While some look halfway hoping i find me looking at them. I know all the tricks. This is why I have a very very low opinion of ppl who 1.) tell men not to approach women. 2.). Who use dating apps. Its twice worst for women who do both bcuz that tells me they r so ugly neither workas for them. Ive never met an attractive girl who tells men not to approach her. And dating apps r full of average and below average looking girls.
I had to screenshot this because your response was so dead on to what I said.
No dimwit. Its all about looks. U cant see personality in pics. And unless i hire a professional photographer i dont think i can truly capture what the girls irl see that attracts them. Honestly i just feel like ur just close minded, you see things the way you want to see things and do not care what others have to say.
The way you talk about women, making eye contact and adjusting their clothing as though all women are beckoning you reminds me of my father when he’s manic and thinks God is talking to him directly to judge and convict the hearts of men.
Secondly, your obsession with looks says way more about you that woman. You’re clearly rather superficial.
And if you want help with your old profile, post it for critique like everyone else.
Fk u. Women have a sexual livido. Ur the fat type that i make mention of my my earlier comment the ones that say “dont approach women, they dont wanna be bothered”. B** plz i got a girls number last night, she scked ny dck and want sme to show her around town while area in nyc for the next 2 weeks. So that just shows that even tho ur a female u cant talk for all women and likely the ones you talk for I dont even want. Go fk urself. Im good as I am. But i cant say the same for u
I love how you can’t help but continue to prove my original point. I mean, shit dude, I wasn’t even being mean to you.
but i am. plz disappear. I would NEVER take advice from you. You've been rude to me from the beginning. And, why am I a misogynist on the internet (which I hate cuz its not me at all)? its bcuz of women like you who are so damn biased against men. Now, I realize why that is, it's because you don't get none. so fk u and gtfo.
You assume I don’t. You assume a lot of things. That’s okay, I assume you’re an incel.
Well yh tech all girls get sex its just they cant get commitment and i would feel sorry for the guy who commits to you. Yikes!
What kind of venues do you go to primarily? Bars, clubs, concerts? Popular ones or more fringe-like? Venues when there isnt anything specific going on or only when there is some type of event?
Literally everything. On the night in my post. I went to a very high end club and then went to a hole in the wall bar after words. I also go to edm, techno and house events.
This is a retarded question but, what's the best way to know what's going on where? Picking events/places etc. I can never choose where to go any given night. Just walk around until you see something cool? A certain website that tracks events? Browse google maps?
This is actually a great question. I can only give u from my pov and how i find events and stuff. 1. My fav dj or musical artist. I try to get ppl together and buy tickets together and then head out. 2. Lesser known names. 3. Eventbrite or promotions of events in social media. 4. Seeing where other ppl go on social media. 5. Word of mouth. A few bars my friends recommends.
I went to two separate bars last night. 1 bar were only couples, the next bar didn’t have a woman I was even attracted to there! Lol
Wrong app choice. Bad photos. Bad profile. Bad first lines.