I have been thinking about it recently but I don't know if I should explore the possibilities since my mum and some other family members are extremely homophobic and I still live at home **(don't worry I am saving to move out soon)**.
what do you mean?
do you mean about my family potentially finding out and it potentially ending badly for me and if so do you think I should explore the possibilities after I move out instead?
I mean it is a slippery slope.
Things escalate when you try them.
Plus if you get caught OR a potential female love FINDS out your family does not condone the women on women lifestyle; the minute some bad shit happens between y'all (and IT will) she IS going to tell your family what you have been up to.
This will drive your family to madness and guess who is not invited to Thanksgiving dinner anymore? Due\_Tackle101.
Guess who is unfollowed on social media? Due\_Tackle101
Guess who no longer gets birthdays gifts or affections from the family? Due\_Tackle101
Guess who is the black sheep of the family? Due\_Tackle101
Guess who is responsible for Nana or pop pop having a stroke from the news? Due\_Tackle101
Do you REALLY want to destroy your family?
Do you want your loved ones to view you in some kind of light because you just had to have a squirting, stomach aching, leg shaking orgasm?
You just gotta lay there in your orgasm juices mixed with hers with a deep sense of satisfaction THAT badly?
You could easily go and have sex with Brad, Chad or Rad and bring them around your family.
HELL your family would even be cool if you bring men around them often because "it didn't work out". But a woman? Will you think of the children?!
Look the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the one.
I think you should watch the lesbian porn but that is it!
Do NOT watch it while drunk or high.
BUT it sounds like you have already made up your mind (you mentioned you are moving out) so wit that being said, make sure you make some solid friends who WILL invite you over for the holidays.
No reason for that, exploring your sexuality is perfectly fine. You don’t need to restart yourself if you have potential interest in your own gender sexually as well.
I gave up men and have had no issues since. I might just be a bitch but I gave my family an ultimatum, they accept me for who I am and my choices or I just put them all on the block list. They accepted it but I doubt they were too thrilled. You’ll have to figure out how to navigate your own family in a way that works for you.
\>I gave up men and have had no issues since.
Im glad you discoverd your sexuality.
\>I might just be a bitch but I gave my family an ultimatum, they accept
me for who I am and my choices or I just put them all on the block list.
They accepted it but I doubt they were too thrilled.
Lol. Hey it's there loss, not yours. I am 99% sure my family will do the same and just disown me completely and the more I think about it. I think that would be for the best if they do end up disowning me since they are pretty toxic.
Stevebeau is a raging homophobe, very few people actually give a shit about it, and the ones who do make it incredibly obvious like Stevebeau. That, or he lives under shariah law or something. If your family loves you they will not care either way what your orientation is, and strangers opinions do not matter in the slightest.
Thanks. In my experience alot of the people I have met who were homophobic tended to be religous aswell and that is bascially also my family and sadly there is a high chance my family will disown me **(or even potentially try to honour kill me if they find out anything while I still live at home)** if I tell them that I could be bisexual since most of them are homophobic inclduing my own mother.
Sexuality is a continuum and people aren’t locked into being 100% straight or gay 100% of the time. If you enjoy lesbian porn from time to time, good for you! If you ever want to explore kissing a woman, go for it. And if not, that’s fine too.
That you are into watching pornography.
I get the feeling that you don’t have as many hang ups as other people. Perhaps you will be happier in the bedroom than others in your family will ever be.
\>I get the feeling that you don’t have as many hang ups as other people.
Perhaps you will be happier in the bedroom than others in your family
will ever be.
I think so to.
Thanks. I grew up with homophobic family members especially my mum **(who would be homophobic even in public to anyone who she thought looked even remotely gay or trans, she would say all these insults in our language thoe and not in english and when the topic comes up she always just compares lgbtq people to bad things)** with them believing that all homosexuals and trans people are going to hell and due to that and my family never talking about sex and sexuality I never looked into anything related to my sexuality before so im exited to see if I am actually also attracted to women aswell as men and leaving my toxic families religion has also helped me become more open minded and more open to trying things I would have never tried before.
Yeah, schools and churches spent generations teaching people that sex was dirty and that any other orientation was deviant. I can remember the police raids on LGTBQ bookstores and other shameful shenanigans like that.
I’m a non believer and I’m still struggling to get beyond the intolerance of the society that raised me. Thanks to my wonderful children, I get to challenge the bullshit I see around me. I hope to be supportive of their choices and be an effective ally to all those people who were outside the norm.
\>Yeah, schools and churches spent generations teaching people that sex was dirty and that any other orientation was deviant.
True. Homophobia is deep rooted in religon.
\> I can remember the police raids on LGTBQ bookstores and other shameful shenanigans like that.
I am not old enough to have witnessed those horrrific events but it's disgusting that those raids by the police and shenanigans were even allowed to even happen.
\>I’m a non believer and I’m still struggling to get beyond the intolerance of the society that raised me.
Honestly same.
\>Thanks to my wonderful children, I get to challenge the bullshit I seearound me. I hope to be supportive of their choices and be an effectiveally to all those people who were outside the norm.
I am so glad that you have your children to help you overcome looking past the intolerance society raised you in and in helping support a group that is hated on by bigated people and just overall being a suportive parent who will love there children no matter what they decide to do with there lives. This shows your willingness to have an open mind to things. I hope to be as open minded and supportive to my kids regarding there choices in life weather that be about there sexuality or ortherwise as like you are wiith your kids and my mum never was with me and my siblings.
It says you are curious.
bi-curious even
Oh Butters!
love that.
I have been thinking about it recently but I don't know if I should explore the possibilities since my mum and some other family members are extremely homophobic and I still live at home **(don't worry I am saving to move out soon)**.
Don't do it. I hear it is a slippery slope. I recommend you stick to the man meat pole...even if the guys don't make you nut, quirt and shake.
what do you mean? do you mean about my family potentially finding out and it potentially ending badly for me and if so do you think I should explore the possibilities after I move out instead?
I mean it is a slippery slope. Things escalate when you try them. Plus if you get caught OR a potential female love FINDS out your family does not condone the women on women lifestyle; the minute some bad shit happens between y'all (and IT will) she IS going to tell your family what you have been up to. This will drive your family to madness and guess who is not invited to Thanksgiving dinner anymore? Due\_Tackle101. Guess who is unfollowed on social media? Due\_Tackle101 Guess who no longer gets birthdays gifts or affections from the family? Due\_Tackle101 Guess who is the black sheep of the family? Due\_Tackle101 Guess who is responsible for Nana or pop pop having a stroke from the news? Due\_Tackle101 Do you REALLY want to destroy your family? Do you want your loved ones to view you in some kind of light because you just had to have a squirting, stomach aching, leg shaking orgasm? You just gotta lay there in your orgasm juices mixed with hers with a deep sense of satisfaction THAT badly? You could easily go and have sex with Brad, Chad or Rad and bring them around your family. HELL your family would even be cool if you bring men around them often because "it didn't work out". But a woman? Will you think of the children?! Look the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the one. I think you should watch the lesbian porn but that is it! Do NOT watch it while drunk or high. BUT it sounds like you have already made up your mind (you mentioned you are moving out) so wit that being said, make sure you make some solid friends who WILL invite you over for the holidays.
No reason for that, exploring your sexuality is perfectly fine. You don’t need to restart yourself if you have potential interest in your own gender sexually as well.
Thank you for your response because stevebeau12's is making me hestistant to try anything due to the potential repurcussions.
I gave up men and have had no issues since. I might just be a bitch but I gave my family an ultimatum, they accept me for who I am and my choices or I just put them all on the block list. They accepted it but I doubt they were too thrilled. You’ll have to figure out how to navigate your own family in a way that works for you.
\>I gave up men and have had no issues since. Im glad you discoverd your sexuality. \>I might just be a bitch but I gave my family an ultimatum, they accept me for who I am and my choices or I just put them all on the block list. They accepted it but I doubt they were too thrilled. Lol. Hey it's there loss, not yours. I am 99% sure my family will do the same and just disown me completely and the more I think about it. I think that would be for the best if they do end up disowning me since they are pretty toxic.
It sure would save money and gas during the holidays eh? Less worry about the gift stuff.
You are right the possible financial gain is just too much to refuse.
Stevebeau is a raging homophobe, very few people actually give a shit about it, and the ones who do make it incredibly obvious like Stevebeau. That, or he lives under shariah law or something. If your family loves you they will not care either way what your orientation is, and strangers opinions do not matter in the slightest.
Thanks. In my experience alot of the people I have met who were homophobic tended to be religous aswell and that is bascially also my family and sadly there is a high chance my family will disown me **(or even potentially try to honour kill me if they find out anything while I still live at home)** if I tell them that I could be bisexual since most of them are homophobic inclduing my own mother.
Sexuality is a continuum and people aren’t locked into being 100% straight or gay 100% of the time. If you enjoy lesbian porn from time to time, good for you! If you ever want to explore kissing a woman, go for it. And if not, that’s fine too.
That you are into watching pornography. I get the feeling that you don’t have as many hang ups as other people. Perhaps you will be happier in the bedroom than others in your family will ever be.
\>I get the feeling that you don’t have as many hang ups as other people. Perhaps you will be happier in the bedroom than others in your family will ever be. I think so to.
I hope you have a great time trying new things and keeping an open mind. Sexuality is a great gift for everybody.
Thanks. I grew up with homophobic family members especially my mum **(who would be homophobic even in public to anyone who she thought looked even remotely gay or trans, she would say all these insults in our language thoe and not in english and when the topic comes up she always just compares lgbtq people to bad things)** with them believing that all homosexuals and trans people are going to hell and due to that and my family never talking about sex and sexuality I never looked into anything related to my sexuality before so im exited to see if I am actually also attracted to women aswell as men and leaving my toxic families religion has also helped me become more open minded and more open to trying things I would have never tried before.
Yeah, schools and churches spent generations teaching people that sex was dirty and that any other orientation was deviant. I can remember the police raids on LGTBQ bookstores and other shameful shenanigans like that. I’m a non believer and I’m still struggling to get beyond the intolerance of the society that raised me. Thanks to my wonderful children, I get to challenge the bullshit I see around me. I hope to be supportive of their choices and be an effective ally to all those people who were outside the norm.
\>Yeah, schools and churches spent generations teaching people that sex was dirty and that any other orientation was deviant. True. Homophobia is deep rooted in religon. \> I can remember the police raids on LGTBQ bookstores and other shameful shenanigans like that. I am not old enough to have witnessed those horrrific events but it's disgusting that those raids by the police and shenanigans were even allowed to even happen. \>I’m a non believer and I’m still struggling to get beyond the intolerance of the society that raised me. Honestly same. \>Thanks to my wonderful children, I get to challenge the bullshit I seearound me. I hope to be supportive of their choices and be an effectiveally to all those people who were outside the norm. I am so glad that you have your children to help you overcome looking past the intolerance society raised you in and in helping support a group that is hated on by bigated people and just overall being a suportive parent who will love there children no matter what they decide to do with there lives. This shows your willingness to have an open mind to things. I hope to be as open minded and supportive to my kids regarding there choices in life weather that be about there sexuality or ortherwise as like you are wiith your kids and my mum never was with me and my siblings.
Nothing. Lots of straight women like lesbian porn, after all it's among the only porn that appears to even care about women having pleasure.
\>after all it's among the only porn that appears to even care about women having pleasure. lol. where is the lie thoe.
Nice! Says you’re healthy
It doesn't necessarily say anything, a lot of people like porn of stuff they wouldn't want in real life
you like to have fun .. the more, the merrier!
Thanks.
Here’s a newsflash: you aren’t straight! Congrats