By - MiserableArea4496
Im leaning towards its not coincidental. I mean there should’ve been at least one other non Somali but all Somali sounds fishy.
Yeahh it does to me too… I don’t really know how to go about this
ngl I would have just run from that alone, but I do admit I’m biased against Interracial marriages (it’s just easier and safer to marry Somalis: I know this is a generalisation but with all the stories people have shared online..
And second.. I wouldn’t want to have second guess forever if it was a fetishisation that started the relationship
I get that, I myself never really thought I’d be in one myself but it just kind of happened and it was going pretty well until now I guess.
He kind of let me know that he matched with girls from all different backgrounds and thinks the first girl was actually Ethiopian. It’s a bit harder to cut off when feelings are involved but I’m definitely going to keep it in the back of my head.
How are you in a relationship for 6 months even as a muslim, Isnt that haram?
We are meeting up with the intention of marriage. By reading some of your previous posts on your profile, it looks like you partook in some haram activities too. I’m not perfect and neither are you.
Still zina is zina
Girl who said we were committing Zina? That’s not me but anyways go off
6 montsh no touching no nothing, We arent stupid, You are working against the somali race by marrying monkeys and creating half breeds that will destroy our people, and dont talk me girl, im not your girl
Yikes.. yeah I’m done responding to you, have a good one.
And i doubt your familys gonna be happy to have a jareer in the family
That’s not what I’m worried about. Thanks for your concern though
I will make dua for your abo and brothers so they dont have a heart attack lool
Like I said.. thanks for your concern but I don’t need it. Have a good day
Your abo needs it, all those years of taking care of you, And now you brought a danyeer home, No naxaaris or anything, May you burn in the deepest hell for doing this to your father lol
Well said lol
Real talk lol!
I would be very hesitant. My sister was in a similar situation, ended up divorced and he ended up marrying yet another Somali girl less than a year later.
Hmm , Yeahh thanks for the advice… I’m going to keep that in mind
good, does she still hate somalis? would love to interview her🤣
See who marries you after he divorces you! That’s the issue with Somali girls marrying a non Somali once he kicks her to the curb they come crawling back and then no other Somali man with brains will marry her! Personally I wouldn’t even look at a girl who dates a ajanib in my mind that’s where she does her dirt!
Yeah same, its insulting and i would never date someone that has dated ajnabi either
true, i think marrying a somali is way easier than foreigner, love my kids to understand my language, have one root, you can't trust the west forever new naziz are in everywhere
Girl tbh a lot of these west African guys fetishize us and at the same time or also have a been disrespecting & disregarding their own women. If he didn’t even give his own women a chance at him first tbh I’m feeling it’s a self hate ting and ur gut is right trust it
Yeahh I’ve heard a lot about it, but I never got that vibe while getting to know him. When I confronted him about it tbh he made a few understanding points. He mentioned that he matched with girls from all different backgrounds however when used the African filter, he got a good amount of Somali/East African girl matches. He said the one girl he went out with was actually Ethiopian.
I feel like it definitely opened my eyes a bit but obviously theres feelings involved and it’s hard to just break things off over this. I will definitely not be blind to it though and will keep it at the back of my head. Thanks for the advice!
Is the app Muzmatch?
Noo I think it was Salaams
That’s creepy and you’re naive.