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Thinking of sending my ex a birthday cake for his birthday

It’s been 6 months NC; should I do it?

JrWick_23

No.


Ierpapierlol

No, why would you do that?


TripodTheSuperCat

Why? Unless you’re intending putting laxative in it.


Help10273946821

I didn’t think of that! 😄


Impressive-Offer-404

Or crows.


Wisherball

No! It won’t have the effect you are hoping it will… you will look pathetic.


Hyde_From_You

Nailed it. I 100% agree with this.


BeautifulHungry1960

No. After 6 months of no contact that would just be scary


Time-Choice-9909

I sent flowers to my ex after 6 months and she told me she had been wanting to reach out but me sending her flowers pushed her away


Help10273946821

Ooh… thanks for the tip…


bearsbeets1

Aren’t these mind games so frustrating?! Ugh!


IamACantelopePenis

Doesn't really sound like mind games. Just a boundary crossed that made someone change their mind.


AcanthisittaIll5689

She doesn’t sound like the nicest person tbh, you’re better off without her


A_Direwolf

You can't buy their love with gifts.


Bilbodraggindeeznuts

Please don't. You may really fuck with his head. I'm not sure if you're dumper or dumper, but still.


No_Contract919

No gift not cards. At the most a 5 word sms


EntertainmentMost444

NO.


heartpangs

no. put the focus on yourself.


whitemirrors_

Go treat urself with a great burger instead of a cake to your ex. Try five guys their burgers damn good. They have like 2 outlets from where i live.


Traditional_Ad_6603

As demotivational Shia LaBluff used to say it - DON'T DO IT! Let your dreams be dreams. You should be giving up.


Adorable_Creme_4122

If this is catie (my ex); yes! Can’t wait for you to reach out- chocolate pls!


Help10273946821

🤣


[deleted]

this is really sweet, I would think it would be a great idea


BeautifulHungry1960

set up


Help10273946821

Haha


Nessie51

Why??? What outcome do you want from it?


Help10273946821

I got a new job and thought it’d be nice to buy him a more expensive and yummy cake because he was rich but very frugal (stingy imho). I hoped that by showing him kindness, he would pay it forward in his next relationship.


Nessie51

No. It will make you look incredibly weak.


Nessie51

And pathetic.


Intelligent_Day_414

Definitely don’t do it


throwsway1910

Lol


Specialist-Leg-3863

DON’T


Soft-Independence341

NOT!!!!!


Cogurnicus

A girl brought me a home made cheesecake for me leaving my job. Brought a chaperone to walk out to security gate of job while she stood there with damaged jaw and broken arm. No one cared about her injury and thought she was being pathetic. Still shamefully hit it though a year later after showing zero interest but enjoyed the cake tbh. You can't buy someone's affection.


Henruda

I have a better idea, why don't you send us some?


Lavender_ballerina

Absolutely not. Get yourself a nice dessert or take yourself out on a date. Give that love to YOURSELF.


Help10273946821

Ok! ☺️ Thanks for the reminder!


anonymousheronimous

No


HappyWojakent

Send it to me instead 😁 i promise you won't look weak


epiix33

No wtf