Drop kick her to the moon op
gaining weight in recovery to be healthy (you are not fat and don’t let anybody tell you otherwise) is kinda the point of recovery 🫠 your mom is a dipshit, please ignore her and keep being awesome and recovering and getting your life back ♥️
I mean I am slightly fat (BMI overweight etc) _but that’s okay_. I eat pretty average and exercise regularly; ie it’s not a helth problem.
The thing is my mother doesn’t know I had an ED, just that I was “trying to lose weight”. I hid a lot of it quite well (eg, I’d sprinkle breadcrumbs on a plate and pretend I ate a sandwich :p). So she doesn’t know how bad her comments are; she just thinks she’s looking out for my helth. But I have been telling her to STFU for years and she never respects it, so she’s still shit
Bmi does not mean shit, friend ♥️ some dipshit made it up for insurance policy purposes 50 years ago, it’s arbitrary and trivial. You are perfect and your body will decide what healthy is! I’m so sorry your mom is like this 😫 i wish she could be more supportive of you
No, it’s not a bad thing, but using it as a negative thing by calling yourself it derogatorily is a bad thing 🙃 fat is wonderful, it keeps us warm, gives us energy and keeps us alive!
that’s so messed up. try to ignore all her bs comments, she’s not a professional and does not know what shes talking about. and you are not fat i promise, gaining weight is part of recovery and it can also fluctuate a lot! recovery is so freaking hard and it can feel really uncomfortable at times but i’m so proud of you, 4 months is amazing! just keep going and you can get out of this fuckingggg shithole
Drop kick her to the moon op gaining weight in recovery to be healthy (you are not fat and don’t let anybody tell you otherwise) is kinda the point of recovery 🫠 your mom is a dipshit, please ignore her and keep being awesome and recovering and getting your life back ♥️
I mean I am slightly fat (BMI overweight etc) _but that’s okay_. I eat pretty average and exercise regularly; ie it’s not a helth problem. The thing is my mother doesn’t know I had an ED, just that I was “trying to lose weight”. I hid a lot of it quite well (eg, I’d sprinkle breadcrumbs on a plate and pretend I ate a sandwich :p). So she doesn’t know how bad her comments are; she just thinks she’s looking out for my helth. But I have been telling her to STFU for years and she never respects it, so she’s still shit
Bmi does not mean shit, friend ♥️ some dipshit made it up for insurance policy purposes 50 years ago, it’s arbitrary and trivial. You are perfect and your body will decide what healthy is! I’m so sorry your mom is like this 😫 i wish she could be more supportive of you
I am objectively fat lol, not by a lot, but I am. Insisting that I’m not just implies that that’s inherently a bad thing.
No, it’s not a bad thing, but using it as a negative thing by calling yourself it derogatorily is a bad thing 🙃 fat is wonderful, it keeps us warm, gives us energy and keeps us alive!
> I am slightly fat _but that’s okay_
That’s exactly the right kind of attitude, friend 😘 i’m proud of you, i know you’ll have a successful recovery and i wish you the very best
fr. the fight between my most desperate soul crushing attempt at body neutrality vs my family "just looking out for me" will be the death of me
Nice to see another body neutrality fan Body neutrality >>> body positivity
It doesn’t help that how I apply “body neutrality” is just repressing shit
I legit almost downvoted because it mad me so mad
Most Moms: "it's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me."
that’s so messed up. try to ignore all her bs comments, she’s not a professional and does not know what shes talking about. and you are not fat i promise, gaining weight is part of recovery and it can also fluctuate a lot! recovery is so freaking hard and it can feel really uncomfortable at times but i’m so proud of you, 4 months is amazing! just keep going and you can get out of this fuckingggg shithole
WE HAVE THE SAME MOM OR SOMETHING OHMYGOD