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Little but important


AdielSchultz

Little things add up to big things 🥰


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That's what I try to tell her 😋


AdielSchultz

Yup ☺️ yes grand gestures are great, but sometimes it’s the little things like remembering something you said that means more


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Instant heart flutters


AdielSchultz

Yeeees!


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Leading to other flutters


PrincessPeach274

When someone I like shows genuine interest in me


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Mmmm, yep... Once that interest becomes mutual!


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In-depth conversations, smart and funny men are always the sexiest


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I'll keep that one in mind... Note to self... Study and learn jokes 😋


soldier01073

When the women is equally as smart and funny as I am its like an explosion of arrousment


IfHornyThenSex

This is accurate. I ended up being really into my friend because of it.


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Instant turn on!


hiddenkinks

My last ex was the only one I remember touching the small of my back. He did this as he was passing me in a store. It was the first time I've experienced that and I didn't have to ask or prompt for it. And I'm afraid he was the only one that would ever have done that for me.


who_re_letthedogsout

physical affection in a non-sexual manner. something as simple as holding my hand while massaging my palm with your thumb to comfort me, it really gets me every time. also, while walking on the sidewalk when they pull you towards the inner side of the footpath and they walk on the curb side. OH and when they see that your glasses aren't clear enough so they sit down to clean it and im all AHHJEKDJSKNDKSKS THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME SEE CLEARER


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Chivalry does it for you then 😋


who_re_letthedogsout

yes chivalry is such a turn on


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*takes notes* 😂


Hi-world1324

True! Joustingis the best thing!


Crazyass1357

I think those deep conversations you have late at night. Just innocent and heart to heart conversations.


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I haven't had that in the longest time.... But when your heart just stops for the briefest moment when you realise how you couple only ever have that deep of a conversation with that one person


Crazyass1357

I know it's a different level of satisfaction. Your heart skips a beat when you're with your favourite person.


LuckyTaco_

This x1000


StokedStoat

First thing that comes to mind is affection, like a genuine loving concern for me. omg, ask me caringly if I have eaten lunch yet and I am ready to bone


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StokedStoat

YES, this is it. That thoughtful concern, it just leaves me feeling so giddy and turned on. I'd be following that up with asking them to now touch the rest of me


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So, how was your day...I want to hear all about it 😋


truteamplaya

I don’t like to speak about my work day because I just go there to get my check and learn but speaking about what I or we can do presently and in the future is top tier


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Nice


truteamplaya

Thx


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A hug from my gf


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I hope your gf sees this 😂


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Well I believe she knows my reddit account and she’s on reddit too so maybe I will know soon enough haha


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Hi gf if you see this... Give your man a hug 😋


ElegantOstrich

I also pick this guys gf


emsuperstar

Insert “I like it when your gf hugs me too” joke here: _______________.


Select_District6533

When my boyfriend talks about science. I fucking hate science, but he is so into it and he glows when he talks about it. I'm not sure why but it turns me on so much


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Haha, do you encourage him to talk more, just to keep enjoying his enthusiasm?


Select_District6533

Oh you know it! I'll even ask him to explain more and stupid questions about words he is using so he also thinks I'm as in to it as him haha. I never know what he is saying because I'm more paying attention to his enthusiasm and thinking about how I want to hit it. Hahaha but yeah he will go on about it for hours and it's my favorite thing ever


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As long as you always get to hit it in the end 😉😈


Select_District6533

When we are together of course haha


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How much talking till you cant hold yourself back? Lol


Select_District6533

Depends on the day haha


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If it were today? Lol


Select_District6533

Like 15 mins hahahaha


Olfg

Now I'm scarred my girlfriend isnt actually listening to me when I talk about science and script theory....


Select_District6533

If she is acting like sues in to it you should be happy with that! Hahaha I would let him talk about it for hours as long as I got to see the passion behind it the whole time. I'm not interested in science and stuff and he uses big words (I'm not school smart) so I zone out. But I try my best to keep him talking because I love how happy he is when he talks about it. So as long as she let's you talk about it you should be happy! Hahaha


8inchesofcock1701

I knew a girl like you. We hooked up and she wanted me to tell her science/nerdy stuff while we fucked. It was a little unusual but everytime I told her about how computers work or cool space stuff she would go crazy.


Select_District6533

It's just the excitement on their face when talking about it. The passion that flows through him is so magical. I don't know if it's the stuff he is talking about that turns me on but more about how he gets right in to it when talking about it. He moves his hands more, he has like a half smile kind of thing. Idk it's Precious just watching him talk about it. It's a look you have to see to understand i guess


201412578

Im falling for your boy with your descriptions, and Im a DUDE


ireallylikeducks99

Hey, I heard you were falling for me.


Ununhexium1999

Lol I’m the science nerd boyfriend but I think it’s adorable when my girlfriend talks about psychology because she gets so excited


Kittyoliver

That’s amazing so the innocent thing that turns you on is when someone talks about something they love?


TerenceFoldyHolds

When a guy puts his hand on the curve at the bottom of your back to guide you gently into a room, like he is with you....not just pushing you lol


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It's almost a comforting feeling And then there's the times he uses that same hand placement to pull you into him for a hug


ArtOwn3454

Ah yea but the dudes that do this unnecessarily to get close freak me out a lil


ImQuestionable

My moment of weakness for sure.


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Mmmmhmmm so good


Kurigohan-Kamehameha

It’s weird how that gesture can mean totally different things depending on context. For someone with NVLD, it was interesting to experience contextual difference without it having to be explained to me. With my former high school pal, she’d hold my arm when it was crowded or dark. It was an obviously platonic and sort of just “stay close” gesture. With the girl I was in love with (who had a long-distance boyfriend) did it and apparently I stopped talking mid-sentence and didn’t even notice. She noticed and took her arm away but I still wonder what was going through her head. It felt like a romantic thing to me, but it’s likely I was just seeing what I wanted to.


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Interesting perspective. The only ones I've ever had do that little gesture were ones with whom I was in a relationship already.


ShizzelDiDizzel

Damn you right


pm-small-asian-boobs

Being asked how I am, like, genuinely. Someone outside my family obviously. I don't even remember how long ago it's been that I felt like someone was genuine in asking that and continued asking about it. I kinda miss that. I guess this might not really be a turn on so much as just something I miss. If we are talking turn on I guess physical touch, doesn't have to be sexual or anything just a good strong hug from a nice woman would certainly get me atleast a little bit turned on.


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I'm a guy.... But I hope you are ok and doing well. We all need people checking in on us


pm-small-asian-boobs

It's appreciated either way. Family has my back but hearing from someone outside family hits different you know. I will be fine evenually, thank you for the concern either way :).


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You got this!


pm_me_thy_ass_girl

Women in Pajamas, even more so than lingerie.


lilbrat91

I've had men that like this and I find it so endearing, I'm like, sexy???? In my bugs bunny pjs??? So sweet.


throwawaysloths32

Honestly dressing up is cool and all… but yeah. Relaxed. Sweat pants. Sweater. Someone who looks comfortable and relaxed and happy is more attractive to me than someone who consistently needs to look like they’re taking Instagram photos for validation. Dressing up is fine occasionally. I just don’t want or need it every single time. It does reach a point actually it just pushes me away.


pm_me_thy_ass_girl

I just love it! Haha


sleepy-68W

I just want to know they feel comfortable!


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The baggier the better?


pm_me_thy_ass_girl

Yessss..... when it drapes over her curves like *chef's kiss*


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Perfection


nugent_music96

Cause you know *exactly* what they are hiding. Damn I love a baggy sweater and boxers.


pm_me_thy_ass_girl

That or the oversized (mine) tshirt and panties combo. 😭


nugent_music96

Brooooo.... glad someone else gets it.


Femmus

When someone takes the time to learn about my hobbies and sometimes joining me in doing them. I.e. Gaming together, listening to the new stuff I learned regarding my study or just listening on how I wont shut up about space haha


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Yes! This! I had a crush on someone until I realised they took no interest in anything I liked. Ended that obsession for me overnight


drunkonteaandlife

Guys when they're slightly embarrassed by something. They kind of have to let their gard down and it's really cute!


OkKaleidoscope8048

Yeah this is so great. That embarrassed smile is so sexy.


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That's when you get your opportunity to pounce!


BlueBrye

People being nice to service staff


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Can't say that's turned me on.... But the opposite has definitely turned me off


WEASELexe

You know when women get really happy and they can't help but bounce around out of joy.


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Hehe, yes!


forgetfulburneracct

A voice.


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Mmmmhmmm


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Well when I was with my now ex, when we talked on the phone I got a love boner from her heartbeat and when I thought about how much she means to me.


spagettimoose

When my boyfriend says I love you out of nowhere and I catch him just staring at me. It feels like magic because, like magic, he is heartfelt and extraordinary. I don’t know what he sees in me but, damn I love that motherfucker! I need his smile on my life more than air to breathe. I know this is cringe but it’s the best I can explain this feeling.


l0rare

People talking about their passion


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Yes... A few others have said that and fully agree


No-Heart7587

I’m a head pat whore


masochisticanalwhore

This dude I was seeing had a collection of work boots. Never thought boys collected shoes.


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Oh we totally do! 😂


masochisticanalwhore

Lol it's so cute! Work boots or other kinds of shoes


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Like Bball shoes even?


masochisticanalwhore

Sure!


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Especially cheeky ones


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Rosenkrantz_

Wearing glasses. For whatever reason it makes any man 200x more attractive for me.


peach_burrito

Agree


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Better work on some poor eyesight then 😂


red_lily11

Honestly, hugs from the back with my man (if I had one lol) kissing me on my cheek or neck or lips, while whispering sweet things in my ear 😍😍😍


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That sounds like the beginning of something not so innocent 😉


red_lily11

Well we all start with innocence until we're no longer innocent 😘


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When a guy is witty, smart, and funny


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Mskk2000

Forehead kisses and or the gentle touch.


LadyLikesSpiders

Men with good relationships with their kids. Something weirdly hot to me about a dad who is good with his daughter, and I don't even want kids


JerseyMikesSub

A guy holding pulling me closer to him in public, especially if it's tucking me into his chest


No-Resident815

When my man takes charge like by taking bags out of my hand to carry or cleans up at my house even though he has his own house and kids to worry about. And when he fixes things. He treats me like I’m so fragile and is so gentle with me I love it. I also love when I feel somebody looking at me, and I look up and he’s just staring at me with loving eyes.


BabyySushii

When my boyfriend strokes my hair as he passes me in the living room. It's a small hair tickle but it just 😍😍


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.... You beg him to come back 😋


BabyySushii

Yes😍😍😍😍 I demand cuddles


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I mean, this isn't my turnon, but i'm quite a physical person and i've noticed a lot of guys like my physical touch, i usually give it in a platonic way. I once kept kicking the leg of my friend, pushing on his calf and tapping my toes on him. When he stood up, i'm 99% sure he had an erection


pm_me_thy_ass_girl

Probably had a foot fetish.... lol jk


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probably now I think about it.


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Lol, I like that you've given him a little doubt


PM_Y0UR_BOOBS

Guess I haven't noticed it before, since I barely get touched by anyone, but yeah getting touched by girls gets me excited when it does happen.


SPOUTS_PROFANITY

Yeah I would have been hard as a rock…


ThatEggLarge73

I think it’s just that he maybe found u attractive and it’s cute when people do that kinda stuff


Scarfiotti

My ex couldn't wear high heels. Now a woman who would wear them during sex is an absolute turn on.


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Love it


quikrick123

Women that are good mothers. Big turn on! Simple as that.


No-Resident815

I love this so much. There’s a horrible group of men and women who believe That single mothers are the dirt on the bottom of their shoes and useless. I believe it’s the red pill movement but it’s a group of people who took it way too far… On YouTube type in the red pill movement single mothers. I know you didn’t say single mothers but I think all mother should be appreciated if they are good parents. Fathers too.


quikrick123

Single or not. Doesn’t matter. Good parents should be celebrated. I think it’s a very innocent thing to be turned on (as a straight man) by a mom who is good to her children.


cassiopeee-ah

Cupping my face with both hands and laying a sweet loving kiss


private_eyes9814

A shy quiet nerdy girl who has NO IDEA she's absolutely sexy


PalpitationEasy113

Being comfortable with someone after sex to lay totally naked with them, talking about anything and everything till you both fall asleep.


Remarkable-Luck-1781

Women in silky ballgowns/wedding dresses with big skirts gives me a massive turn on.


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There must be a sub for that


Remarkable-Luck-1781

Maybe, I have yet to find it though.


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If there were... You wouldn't be here 😂


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When you're down in the dumps and they know how to cheer you up even when you don't know how.


king24donnie

Something about the way my wife asks "How was work?" when I get home every day. I can tell she is genuinely interested in what I did like she wished she was there with me for every moment so we could experience it together. Always makes me feel so loved and wanted that I just want to reciprocate and show her I appreciate it. It is definitely one of the things that makes me love her and feel more attracted to her each day.


Hatrick_Swaze

Practical jokes between each other. The laughs seal it for me.


Derp_Smash

Holding hands.


LanceTheLexus

If you give me the daily amount of complements I need well I won't mind boning with you


IfHornyThenSex

Someone being really good with animals. Gentle but firm, I like it.


anotherside0714

Seeing a woman dressed up. Seeing her in a nice dress makes me wish I could hike it up the minute we get home.


asanemaniam

OK, I thought maybe I was weird because my wife had this baggy set of pajamas that I find find sexy, she doesn't understand.


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Nope, you are perfectly normal


IronGiantFan99

Women who share the same taste in art as me


Original-JayEdgar

Empathy


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I have a hand kink myself that I've developed over the years so even hand holding for me is a turn on.


fakeitillumakeit12

When people explain stuff to me, could be related to anything just the fact that they're so knowledgeable about something turns me on


rob0369

Braided hair. I have no idea why, but this. Guaranteed to increase a woman’s attractiveness by 20%.


Uglymfbitch

I mean sexually i actually enjoy missionary even tho i’m not really into vanilla sex, but connection-wise i’m a sucker for really deep conversations where the man is really opening up to me, not scared to show emotions.


WhisperinStoryteller

My BF had some serious issues about talking his every day problems and worries. It also included little successes etc. His feelings had been invalidated in the previous relationship for a really long time. So seeing him today, coming home from work and sighing something about his stupid work mates just makes me so happy and also turns me on a little. I think it’s the progress that can be seen


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Power dynamics


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May be weird but me and my boyfriend are gamers and when he makes just the craziest big brain plays i think its so hot


Crazy_Conversation51

My partner likes to take a flash light before or after we’ve had sex and deeply inspect and explore my pussy. I don’t know I love it


creepliege

Accomplished women. Female lawyers, doctors, etc.


kimbosplice21

Women wearing headbands


jusmithfkme

A sweater that's not too long and panties


wishiwasbetter14

County men


willgo-waggins

A small bit of naivety in a woman is always refreshing and fun. No matter how “experienced” or whatever I do find that the ones who have this are far more attractive and charming and generally nice people with a positive attitude about life and the world.


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When women with long hair wear it pulled to the front over their shoulder. Either loose or in a braid. A crush in high school always did that and it was a formative experience.


SparklingWiggles12

A girl that can roller skate really well


gabbyspaniel

My husband just looking up from a book and making eye contact and giving me that smile. I know what it means.


ChewieLvr

When my boyfriend runs his fingers though my hair and down my neck


Warped-switch

When my boyfriend goes out of his way to help other people. He’s so sweet and that makes me (and my pussy) swoon


YeanlingMeteor1

When you're in the same room with your SO and a bunch of people at a party or something and you both lock eyes and wink across the room to eachother with the "I love you eyes". But also someone said those 12 am conversations and I also love those. Or just steiaght up watching a movie/tv show and snuggling up together


Lilith_demon__

When men blush, for some reasons I find it very hot


Cumoshit

accidental thigh touch.


631_Exuberant_Bias

Women with curly hair


NeedyLittleMommy

Freckles on shoulders


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During this era of masks… eye contact


Cuddly_Tiberius

Women in shorts and a modest t shirt


bigmeatyclaws6

Shooting the shit with a romantic partner. Like old friends


rando______

Hands. I love my husband’s hands. Something abt them turns me on. And also tickling him.


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Sneeqo

Transparent glasses


shroomflies

When a girl holds on to your arm when you start walking


Dis_Bich

Being touched on my thighs


txstech76

VPL


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Things that are “chivalrous” such as opening my car door, having me walk on the inside of the sidewalk, giving me their coat, etc. not a lot of men do those simple things but they’re such a turn on!


awaythrowniamnow

Chockers. Like stylish ones or lace. First time I saw that, whew that hit me hard


St_untm_an

A victorian neck line.


SelectionDry5933

Men who wear watches on left hand while they are driving🥰. Or when they dress up, like putting a tie or the belt, it feels sexy for me😇. Oh, and the veins on their hands😍.


Known_Ad_8604

Beautiful hair, when it smells great 1000% bonus. If it’s in two French braids down the back of her head. I’ve already orgasmed in my pants.


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Love the specifics of this


amcoffee1

Women putting on lipstick.


2playaararri

Women stomachs in croptops, I like seeing their stomach. women in sweat suits, and leggings. And when women wear red or light blue patent leather dresses.


Kittyoliver

Someone who listens! I just sits there and listens to you ramble and talk and doesn’t try to find solutions just listens.


Schlopinrobert

Lip licking.


Echoherb

Light colored hair coupled with dark colored eyes. That combination is so sexy to me.


Outrageous-Umpire-16

being respectful


lovely_carrot

A man who knows how to carry a conversation, shows genuine interest in you, sense of humor and knows when to be naughty