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How do you make friends after highschool?

How do you make friends after highschool?

KryptonymousTTV

Get into groups or activities, start conversations with people who frequent locations around the same time as you, join a for-fun sports team, start a new hobby, etc. So many ways!


geoff5093

Find clubs or hobby groups that do things you like, such as hiking, photography, Magic, etc. Or become friendly with coworkers.


kitttgonewild

It feels awkward to ask co-workers to hang out since I feel like none of them would say yes. And what are hobby groups?


geoff5093

I wouldn't ask them to hang out, at least not for a while. See if you connect with any though, and if you both seem to enjoy talking at work, maybe friend them on social media and see if they want to talk casually outside of work. It's easy if they play video games, then over time asking to grab drinks or something would be a lot easier. [Meetup.com](https://Meetup.com) is a good way to find people and groups of similar interests.


kitttgonewild

That sounds like a good plan! There's a few people but I'm scared of being rejected but I have no one to talk to so I'm always lonely outside of work.


AddendumOutrageous

Do like I did and get a job and adopt them


kitttgonewild

Adopt?


AddendumOutrageous

Yes talk to them then slowly include them into your personal life


Right-t-0

Join a sport team


sirgog

Find something you are already interested in, and join IRL events (when safe - pandemic...) around it. Maybe you like hiking - there'll be Meetup groups for that near you. Maybe you like sci-fi - again, there'll be meetup events. Maybe you like dismembering people and hiding bodies - this might be harder to find a group for but that just makes it more rewarding


CaptianMurica

Join a masturbation club