Take your net for the year, subtract out the costs of 6 trans-atlantic visits, health insurance, a place to live, phone plan, internet and other services you will have to duplicate and the means to commute and displeasing your wife and placing your marriage under duress and being able to return and being able find an equivalent job to the one you left and then make your decision.


my aunt was married to a swiss man. they lived together in Switzerland 4 months of the year. he stayed there and she lived in NYC for the rest of the year, usually visiting each other once or twice again that year. do what works for you.


Ask your wife what she thinks, only opinion that matters.


It's really up to what your wife wants. If she is not willing what will you do? Go anyway? It might be better to simply have a discussion with your wife about the difficulties you are experiencing there.