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Woman tries to stop a wedding

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Leading-Bowl-8416

Did she say "after you got it in my eye" lmfao.


escapist002

I heard that too 🤣


LazyBriton

I thought she said gouged out


The_Ironhand

Nahhhhh


ajs1788

I think she said “After you dotted my eye”


friend1y

Nutted in my eye


bitchenstichen

YEEES, “after you got it in my eye “


WhiskyTango3

How fucking rude. Everyone knows you’re supposed to wait till they ask if anyone has any objections.


420Deez

do they really ask if there are objections? lol


BigGreenYamo

They used to. Not sure anymore. "If anyone knows of any reason this couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, let them speak now or forever hold their peace" Or something like that


TheSukis

The officiant can say whatever they want at a wedding, and some of them absolutely still do say this. I’ve heard it at two weddings this year, and the officiant of my own wedding included it in some of the templates she sent us.


acouperlesouffle55

Yes, you are right. We had the option to tailor the officiant’s lines. We kept this part in our wedding.


ydontukissmyglass

Im curious why you chose to keep that part in? Were you expecting Anthony's girlfriend to show up? Or do you just like the tradition?


1ildevil

Maybe the couple was genuinely curious if anyone else had any problems with them being married but were afraid to ask.


alycenri

We kept ours because I thought making that pause would be funny. I thought it was, hahaha.


pwillia7

Kind of a cowardly move to not give the others a chance to at least say something


autismislife

I'm planning on asking the officiant to skip this bit, there's technically no requirement for them to say it, but if someone objects essentially the officiant then has to stop the ceremony. Not risking my big day for one of my mates to think they're being funny.


minesaka

No they really don't. It is a contract between two people, not their families and friends. Unless someone has a valid legal reason why it can't happen, it's just a formality/tradition. What the bride and groom do with the information is up to them, but they can't just cancel your wedding because someone sneezed, a friend trolled or the demented granny started talking nonsense again. There's just way too much money involved to cancel the whole thing for some joke.


BuhCat6473

Iirc, it started to stop polygamy and those that were helping the person commit marital fraud, or the fraudsters themselves were given an out. It's as archaic as the "do you promise to obey" vow, which I noticed was kept in this wedding.


dovetc

More bigamy than polygamy.


PointsOutLameEdits

I don't know the history of that line so I'm talking out of my ass. But I always took it to mean that after wedding was a done deal, the chance to bitch about the fact these two people are getting married is lost. So otherwise, forever shut your trap if you disagree because this thing is forever.


amd2800barton

It’s there to both stop bigamy, but also to protect someone who may be coerced. There are still some religions that will stop a ceremony even if the “I object” person goes “wait no it was all a joke, I was only kidding!” In older days if a preacher heard an objection, they’d stop the wedding, and insist on figuring out why someone objected - whether one of the parties was already married, or wasn’t coming to the altar under honest intentions.


PointsOutLameEdits

Makes sense.


Mami_Kisses

😂 That's hilarious. I'm leaving it because I refuse to change up the tradition. I would simply holster a pistol to my hip and when we reach that part of the ceremony I'm unbuckling the strap and holding the safety. I bet you won't hear a peep from anyone.


autismislife

Great plan lmao, however unfortunately I'm in the UK so that method might be more trouble than it's worth, might just ask a couple of my more well built friends to make sure everyone stays sat though lol


Mami_Kisses

😂 That will work too.


dreamsofcalamity

Why would you invite whom you do not trust to your wedding?


laden1921

They still do in Catholic weddings. They are required too. It is not so much of an issue now, but back in the day it was more common then you think. Many people would go to the near by towns to get married to a new wife since divorce is against the church. The church is still required to publish a public notice of your wedding three weeks prior to the services.


BigGreenYamo

> The church is still required to publish a public notice of your wedding three weeks prior to the services. This part I never knew.


rangerxt

could you imagine some dude plans to interrupt the wedding and tell the bride how much he loves her and is just waiting for the objection bit.......but it never happens and he's just sitting there shellshocked


BigGreenYamo

Aaaaaany second now. Come on, say it. Come on. Wait, what the fuck???


Rad0555

Now you just get divorced the next day if you ain’t feelin it


Shunto

In Aus they do say "Legally I have to ask if anyone has any objections to this marriage" (this language verbatim is obviously from a more informal Celebrant versus a priest) But think of it more from a legal standpoint: It's in the context of whether anyone knows if one of the parties is breaking the law by already being married to someone else or still not yet formally divorced etc etc. Hollywood has changed us to think it's an opportunity for some long lost love to interrupt and profess their love


Thomo87

We never had it at our wedding, it's not a requirement as far as I know. I might be mis-remembering though, she said some stuff, but I don't recall the details.


Shalminoc

Australian here. There is no legal obligation in Australia to ask if anyone has objections.


optimistic_agnostic

Nah it's not, was at a wedding last week that if this had been said there absolutely would have been objections but alas, nah.


D1rtyH1ppy

You can now do whatever you want during the ceremony. You want to get married by a man in a furry costume, go for it. Want a murderer clown to officiate, you can do that too. All of the preacher and church stuff doesn't make you legally married. You just have to sign a piece of paper and get it submitted to the government. That's it. The ceremony doesn't actually make you legally married.


Peking_Meerschaum

Wellll it's not *quite* that simple. It depends on the state, first of all. But in most places in order to sign the paper and have it be legally binding, you have to have an officiant do some form of oath or attestation to certify the marriage, he/she then also signs the marriage license (unless you just go to the court/county clerk to get married directly). Officiants function much the same as notaries, but with a bit more ceremony.


crypticfreak

Lol why (more importantly, how) do you have a political compass meme tag here? Asking for a friend.


Peking_Meerschaum

I don’t remember lmao I think it was one of the flair options


Imma_Coho

Go to sub’s home page and select flair.


D1rtyH1ppy

Right, we had a good friend go down and register as an officiant for our wedding. He is also a notary.


grundledoodledo

In the UK they ask if 'anyone knows of any *legal* reason these two should not be married' or similar... they want to know if they are already married to someone else or related, rather than giving the opportunity for any spurned lovers to ruin the day


WhiskyTango3

Good question. I remember they used to. Went to a wedding last year and I don’t even recall.


mosthightriguy

I officiate weddings in the USA and I've never asked the congregation if there are objections. Someone would be pretty sick in the head to show up at a wedding just to object to the thing happening and I would hope that the couple had the good sense not to invite any psychos to the event. I offer to do "traditional" elements and usually the couple wants some but that bit never happens. That said, part of my services is to defend the couple from crazy be that the MiL losing her shit or a guest gone off their meds. Amazing the calming influence of a big guy in a black suit holding a Bible brings to a situation. I'm always pissed at the officiants in these videos that don't immediately go into mama bear mode. Even in the least religious ceremonies I officiate, everyone just assumes I am some sort of spiritual powerhouse with lightning at my fingertips. A room full of atheists gives me respect. The officiant needs to exercise that authority. The bridal party and ushers should be set like linebackers waiting for the officiant to give the "go" signal. Like a flight attendant measuring up the passengers on the way onto the plane, I've already picked out long before the service starts who I'm going to ask to "solve" any problems.


TotallyNotMTB

It was used in case the bride and groom were close relations and unaware of it or one or the other was married already


jamesd1100

It's such a ridiculous custom Like you're just creating an opportunity for someone to disrupt the wedding where their doesn't need to be one It's not like their going to call the wedding off because some ex boyfriend/girlfriend starts screaming lmao so what is the point? A mid-wedding venting session for pissed off exes?


sareana

Right!! Rookies!!


joshjosh111

I object!


puppynducks

Had me in the first half


FuckRedditSnowflakez

Nobody has any patience nowadays


CrushCoalMakeDiamond

It's wild that she had a once in a lifetime opportunity to do the Hollywood movie objection routine irl and she blew it harder than the dude blew his beans in her box.


After_The_Knife

If only we could lock your comment at !777!


_player_0

What if they didn't ask that?


WhiskyTango3

Then you can’t say anything at all. That’s the law. /s


Relative-Beginning-2

Some top tier sad cringe.


xdey

This is /r/ImTheMainCharacter level of cringe


WildSkunDaloon

After scrolling that sub for a minute I just straight up feel drunk off cringe. It's like downing everclear with no chaser.


CutThatCity

What did she think was going to happen? A round of applause and then Anthony would leave with her?


SC-Fulmer

There’s no logic or reason… the only goal is to inflict their misery onto others


wophi

Pure evil hatred.


CashFlowHedge

I think she got exactly what she wanted.


BigGreenYamo

Her ass kicked by Precious?


BlinkBuster

“Blah blah blah my momma wedding” she said. That’s Precious!


CashFlowHedge

Chaos at her rivals wedding.


super_pax_

Oh I get it, because she’s black and a woman. Very clever my friend


TheSukis

Check what sub you’re in


super_pax_

Apparently, according to my achievements I’m an all time top 500 poster here, so I think I’m quite familiar with this sub


TheSukis

I’m just saying that racist jokes like that are common here, so don’t even bother calling them out because the knuckleheads love it


BigGreenYamo

If she were white, I would've gone with that fat trash thumb-head woman from the Honey Boo Boo shit show. She *happens* to not be


RhythmMethodMan

Repeat of [The Graduate](https://youtu.be/ahFARm2j38c?t=111)'s ending


crypticfreak

Huh, don't think I've ever seen that movie. Seems like I should have. I'll have to check it out, thanks! EDIT: Also, it's crazy how young Dustin Hoffman looks while still looking exactly like old Dustin Hoffman. I mean of course they're the same person but it's like, I don't know, uncanny?


spongish

Is that not what end's up happening?


mikerichh

Probably as simple as hoping to ruin their moment out of spite


YimYum69

"You better get out of my mamas wedding" That is the sweetest fucking thing ever. Goddamn. I hope she landed a good couple of smacks on that bitch. Love is love, no ones ever gonna love this bitch again.


sir_ballsack

Yeah, I actually felt really bad for the brides daughter. She’s clearly sharing a special moment, watching her mother get married, and this troglodyte of a woman shows up (from the girls reaction I’d wager that the baby momma has been disturbing their lives for some time). I’d flip out at her too.


somebeerinheaven

The fact that the people getting married carried on looking forward hints to that as well. Seems like a crazy bitch of an ex.


Comfortable-Ad-8478

Bitter BMs are the worst. I would have enjoyed watching this beat down.


TrailMomKat

Sorry, but I work in healthcare so I read that as Bowel Movement, gave me a giggle


hugeneral647

Some people just live such deeply, profoundly pathetic lives that they have absolutely NO SHAME left. None, zero. They do and say pretty much whatever they want, consequences be damned. Here’s a nice group of people enjoying a beautiful wedding, and this vile person can’t help but make it about them. Truly sad


ClayTankard

See, where she went wrong was not waiting outside of view until they said "does anyone object..." and THEN rushing in to interrupt.


murderfack

Timing is everything.


TheVoiceOfHam

...who invited her?


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Lesko_Learning

Probably 14 that's why its not there.


GhostTheEternal

I'd guess no one invited her, she just found out where the wedding was going to be and showed up.


pipinngreppin

Dude, people are crazy. I just had an ex fwb reach out yesterday to see if I’d be the photographer for her wedding. That means I’d have been shooting the engagements, bridal photos, and wedding. Lots of moments alone. Usually dinner after the shoots to review the photos. I feel like there’s an unspoken “no guests that have been inside you” rule. I declined.


Inner_Explanation_97

Directed by Tyler Perry


Lesko_Learning

Starring Tyler Perry as "You get out of my mamas weddin" girl.


Realistic-Ad4382

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GualtieroCofresi

We demand more


donniebaseball2020

Anthony done fucked up good this time


CowboyTrout

I need a full video🤣


ezezim

Terrible videographer. Always follow the angry woman running at the crazy one.


thedeterminedmind

That priest is a real trooper and bro.


dnavi

he's probably not paid hourly


25_timesthefine

This is why I’m scared to get married. You can be in love with someone and they can have a whole other life


TheSukis

What lol


mafuckinjy

My old boss had an entire family in the DR that nobody knew about he went down there like once a week every other month because of random reasons or would say he’s up in Atlanta at one of his restaurants, they only found out when the government indicted him on unrelated charges.


25_timesthefine

Oh wow


L003Tr

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somebeerinheaven

I thought that too but this seems like it's more the disturber was a nutjob. Notice how the bride and groom don't turn around and continue to ignore her. Then the daughter snaps at her. Seems like they're used to it and she found out where they're getting married.


App_Rub420

Only if you are in a TV show or marry someone you have known a week. Not getting married is going to stop that anyway.


TheLovingTruth

There's like a whole other type of life being lived out there. It's so surreal to think about.


dubamamorange

you mean IRL?


PizzaInSoup

Ahh Hollywood, never stop being a bad influence.


tenshii326

Ratchet wedding confirmed..


Wiggidy1

I'm googling it and not getting great results. What's a ratchet wedding?


tenshii326

[Ratchet](https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ratchet)


Alphajanet

Haa Haa and she's still going to marry him. She must have used the app Low Expectations.


TigerWoodsCock

Damn. An old school Mad TV reference. I love it.


Alphajanet

Ooh, when I wrote it, the didie started playing in my head but I didn't know where I remembered it from.


ICnMm

Kids reaction was perfect


tanwhiteguy

Good on the daughter for sticking up for her mom


fordreaming

So she's upset that the cheating dude, isn't her cheating dude? All of sudden he's going to be a great and moral man for her? She should be smiling knowing that he is someone else's problem, not trying to get attention and ruin their wedding.


BabySharkFinSoup

He may not have cheated. Could be a bitter ex.


Mobzor

Is it me or does the women causing the scene sound like the Meeseeks from Rick and Morty?


Lunarfalcon666

Where the rest of it?


Tomimi

Who invited her? lmao We got rid of everyone who is a suspect for drama at our wedding.


PapaLRodz

Where’s part 3 tho?


SteroidAccount

Anthony seems to have stuck his dick in a bit of crazy.


07WoefulMatrix

Maury Povich time!


daishi-tech

Does this woman need a job? I want to pay her to do this at peoples weddings just to upload the footage to youtube. I'd subscribe to that.


tufffffff

So classy!


Caligula404

Reverand don’t give a shit, he keeps on going


NewJerseyMets

It’s not quite “The Graduate” but good effort


sustainablecaptalist

I second wanting "part 2". This ain't enough!


tiredoldbitch

Video ended too soon. I wanna see the smack down.


NJD1214

Did she say "are you hear me"?


pbrontap

And then........


evan_ack

I've played in a band at countless weddings and I haven't seen anything like this yet. I hope I don't ever have to, this shits sad


oz6364

anthony sound triflin


Archangel_Greysone

Not to normal people


FobbitOutsideTheWire

Flower artillery followed by the infantry assault from the high ground. Classic strategy for all wedding engagements. Napoleon would be proud.


ascendedhand

It's sad that lady is getting married to such a piece of waste. Wonder why nobody's mentioning that.


Re-toast

Black weddings be crazy yall


Over-Presentation958

When she threw the flowers I thought she tryna beat up the bride lol until she she spoke


sadpanada

Okay but does anyone have part 2??


thisonetimeonreddit

She forgot to take her psych meds today.


Waterer78

Part 2 please.


koreamax

r/iamthemaincharacter


koolaidistheshit

Wow her whole plan was to get a big reaction and have people like “yeah Anthony!” But reality was some dumb jizztrap just embarrassed herself and her kid. Most everyone who was part of the wedding stayed way more composed then I woulda been.


itsricotime

Ohhhhwww hell naweeooo


LittleRosston8

Tyler Perry Presents: Bitch What is Wrong Witchu?


Wolfie359

Fake. They stopped filming...


Nezikim

Anyone remember South Beach Tow?


Foreign_Ad_4726

I would pay to go to weddings if this happened at them i love watching confrontation


giveitatest

Aunt Jemima called, she wants her syrup back


Mountain_Imp

Anthony got some explaining to do!


App_Rub420

I can't make out a word she says but it doesn't matter, doing this at a wedding makes you a piece of shit. If she had something to say she should have brought it up before. She has embarrassed the bride and all the family that are there for something that was probably nothing to do with them. Just completely selfish and over the top. Should just remove that whole part from the wedding, its only ever someone with bad blood who says anything, not someone with an actual reason.


Beefcurtains18

Stay classy, Yonkers.


YimYum69

"You better get out of my mamas wedding" That is the sweetest fucking thing ever. Goddamn. I hope she landed a good couple of smacks on that bitch. Love is love, no ones ever gonna love this bitch again.


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Bjorkforkshorts

What a clever unbreakable code.


Isolation_

o thanks


CynicalCheer

No one commenting on the "obey him" part the pastor is reciting? Love and honor but obey seems a little over the top to me.


ThiccElf

Maybe the pastor is reading from some backwards 1950s wedding rites?


random-trans-woman

just avoid getting married. avoid it at all costs unless you wont get in the estate otherwise. then make it a whistle stop at the court house before going out yachting on a ship with “no good place for his oxygen canisters, I did my best officer i swear”.